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I love him so much it hurts...

Have you felt this way about another man?

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I've never felt this way about another man.

He's everything I could ever want in a partner.

Infidelity is the biggest deal-breaker for me, but I would tolerate it from him.

Hearing his voice makes my day.

A part of me would die if he cut me out of his life.

I daydream about him, and at night I hug my pillow thinking about him.

It scares me knowing I will never find anybody "as good" as him.

Every thread seems to be either the same co-dependent ramblings, or about falling in love with your straight friend, but I had to get this out. Plus, reading over it gave me some perspective.

Have you ever felt this way?
 
Yes... I went through this episode about ten years ago, and recently I found myself looking back fondly about him.
 
I have too and still do. We are still in love and very happy. Always get excited when we are today for any reason. Just being together is best. Being apart is when it hurts the most but the reunions are fantastic!
 
12fear99 said:
I have too and still do. We are still in love and very happy. Always get excited when we are today for any reason. Just being together is best. Being apart is when it hurts the most but the reunions are fantastic!
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So why the fuck does your status say "single"?
 
The worst part is when you fall so totally head over heels in love with someone that cannot return those feelings. In my mind, he was everything to me. I would have gladly died for him. When we were together, I was happy and high as a kite. (!) When we were apart, I felt like I died inside. :cry:

Love can be a bitch! But man, WHAT a feeling it was at the time.

I only hope that I can feel that way once more.... with someone that feels the same for me.
 
No. I haven't. I'm not saying it's abnormal though. You just have to put it in perspective. It's your brain chemistry going through a certain high. There is nobody that great. It's your mind playing tricks on you. If we could operate on your brain and alter some chemistry then suddenly you'll hate him. Certainly you have to like someone but extremes are never healthy.
 
Yep, same scenario. It usually changes and 'picks' somebody else after a year or so. Not sure what happens to cause it, but must be a certain situation, certain time of year and certain brain chemistry to kick it off.

Sometimes I can logically think past it and it's clear, then sometimes it's ridiculous and clouds all my thoughts and can only focus on one thing, all day and all night. Definitely not healthy. Wish I could figure out how to make it stop, it is painful because you know you'll never ever get it returned the same way you feel, ever.
 
Are we talking about falling for a straight guy or love in general?
 
yep, so much in love for a straight guy (silly me) it hurts for 5 years, physically hurts, bend over, hurling things, can't walk away, suicidal hurts.
 
Haunted - that makes perfect sense...

Alt - I meant in general, although I've also been majorly infatuated with straight guys. I think the hunt is better than the kill in those instances.

Now I'm wondering which one's worse, because I always found that "love/lost" saying to be bullshit, but you do get some memories to reflect on. Then again, it's almost like a drug...I know waking up in his arms was quite possibly the most secure I've felt since being in the womb...
 
BR320525 said:
Alt - I meant in general, although I've also been majorly infatuated with straight guys. I think the hunt is better than the kill in those instances.
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How is there a kill if the guys are straight?
 
Hypnosis?

Yes. It's fucking horrible. I've never let myself do it again.
 
This is year 4 for me :p I know he'll never return my feelings and I wish they would just go away already. But if anything, it feels as if they're getting worse. And I'm so damn frustrated that I can't seem to feel the same way for anyone else, I can't get any satisfaction out of sex because all I want is him, all I NEED is him.

Eugh. Isn't there a pill you can take to not feel these things? XD
 
Been There Done That, Even got the T-Shirt, it ended in blood & Tears, i learned to go on!
 
altlover85 said:
How is there a kill if the guys are straight?
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I guess there isn't, as far as relationships go, so "seducing a straight guy" is probably a contradiction in terms...I've assumed someone I knew to be straight, and stopping at nothing to fulfill my fantasies of him gave me what seemed like this super human drive/motivation to do so.

Maybe it IS possible to channel sexual energy into other aspects of your life, that must be the reasoning behind priests and celibacy vows.
 
I usually associate that kind of think with being a young guy without a lot of experience.

The first one is always intense.
 
I've been there... however, what you're feeling more then likely isn't "Love". It's more like: Lust, Infatuation, Obsession. Took me years to figure this out!
 
Felt like this about my first love. Still haven't loved since him but I no longer feel the pain as much. Slowly getting over him.
 
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