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I met this guy..

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On Friday night. We'd been texting for a few days after we'd talked online for a bit.



We made plans and then met up Friday night. We hung out for several hours at his place, just talking. Eventually I could decided to make the first move because he kept hinting at it, rubbing against my leg, brushing my hand, etc. And then we slowly progressed from kissing on. For two and a half hours. There was no anal sex, but it was fantastic. Easily one of the best sexual encounters I've ever had. There seemed to be so much more... passion, than I'm used to.


Whether it was actually there or not I don't know. Maybe that's just how he is sexually or maybe it was something. But the fact of the matter is, I was very comfortable with him. Something that doesn't happen for me often. I felt so.. alive. More so than I have in well over a year. Not to mention the fact that finding a decent, sane, stable guy my age seems to be increasingly difficult.



Now I'm not exactly sure where I stand, I don't want to exceed expectations, it's very possible it was just was what it was and that's that. He did say he's like to see me again. So now i'm trying to figure out how to proceed. I'm not sure when I should contact him again, etc.



Sorry for the long post, but this guy really threw my head for a loop. I feel like everything I knew just flew out the window and I'm back to square one, not knowing anything
 
Stop over-thinking this. You're not picking out a china pattern for your wedding, you're just asking someone out on a second date.

There are worse things than finding someone you like. :)

Just send a text or quick email saying that you had fun, you want to see him again and saying when you will call him again. Then call when you said you would call and ask him out.
 
Thanks for the response. And I know you're right, I am over thinking it far too much. (I'm a Psych major, go figure). It's just that I find someone I truly connect with so rarely that when it does happen it throws me for a loop.


It's been well over a year since I've met someone that left me feeling like this. It's exciting but at the same time it scares me. I pride myself at being able to keep my emotions in check at almost all times so when I find myself in a situation where they're running wild it bothers me. And opens the door for a let down. But you have to take risk if you ever want to make a significant gain..
 
Well I saw him again. And things went really well. We're planning to see each other again soon. :D
 
That's good. Keep it relax and worry free. Like Kara said, don't over analyze something that isn't there. Enjoy and go with the flow and the pieces will fall into place.
 
JUst let it go at its own pace and relax. You won't be able to enjoy your time with him if you're nervous for all of it.
 
bokan800 said:
That's good. Keep it relax and worry free. Like Kara said, don't over analyze something that isn't there. Enjoy and go with the flow and the pieces will fall into place.
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Thanks. I'm doing much better now than I was when I made the original post. Things seem to be going very well so I'm just going with it. Enjoying the ride.
 
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