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I miss gay friends

I_missAgayFriend

I_missAgayFriend

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Hi,
In the past i had some gay friends, those connections ended with time because of moving and relations. I notice lately I (as an official "straight" for the outer world) miss very much to relax with them in freedom, openness and directness. The teasing, flirting, the attention, the sweetness, the vibes and hotness... I miss.. Is that weird? And some have experience with friends like I was? Also I miss such a relation online...
 
It's not weird.

But it's also worth pointing out that you're in a forum for LGBT people and those who support them. That would be an opportunity to make new online friends.
 
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I totally understand where you're coming from. I'm a member of a large gay Facebook group for the Niagara region where I live, and they have meetups in restaurants/bars twice a week (Wed & Thu evening), every week, in a couple different towns/cities, with an average of 15 guys every time, with probably about 100 different guys in total coming intermittently to make that average. I used to always go, at least once a week, for years. Mostly in the closet in daily life, out to just a few friends, and single, I always love hanging out with these guys, able to be my true self with them. They are my people. But things have gotten so busy at work every day for the last year that I rarely make it out now, and I really miss it, I really miss them. What I call a gay loneliness has descended on me. I have other friends, my Buddhist group, and work, but it's not the same. I just need to socialize with other gay men. Hopefully for both of us that will come soon.
 
I_missAgayFriend said:
"as an official "straight" for the outer world) miss very much to relax with them in freedom, openness and directness. The teasing, flirting, the attention, the sweetness, the vibes and hotness... I miss.. Is that weird?
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Sounds very hot to me. Did you ever consider taking it to the next level with any odd them?
 
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It's odd, all my friends have been straight. Since I can remember. I've never fooled around with any either. It's not like the opportunity never came up, stick a few drinks in some of them, and they'd look at me like an apple in a Bobbing for Apples game on Halloween. I knew the dynamics would change if we fooled around, so I always played stupid.
I didn't want to loose those friendships.

This was before I met the husband. Now we have no friends. 😄
 
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