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I need advice on how to tell a friend not to have bareback sex...

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Warn your friend. Anything else is up to him. He's not a baby.
 
Explain the risks if he's not aware and that there's a lot more shit you can get from barebacking than just HIV. Anything else isn't your responsibility nor is it your place. He's an adult, if he wants to the take the risk, let him.
 
Your friend is 32. Unless he's legally handicapped, telling him what he should and shouldn't do with his body at this point is probably going to be taken as being pushy. Chances are, if he wants it, he's going to do it.
 
I always hope that someone out there will benefit from being told. If they don't like being told, I can't say I give a damn. So tell your friend. And if he doesn't listen, tell people about your friend. Maybe they will be smart enough.
 
You're an adult in most countries at 16. If you are not aware of the general risks in life by that point, well, I hope you are lucky.

You can only tell him to be careful but he is his own person and can make his own decision about his body.
 
You already spoke to him about the risks. The rest is up to him. Sucks but he's a man and he's going to do whatever the heck he wants.
 
Show him a picture of a dick and anus infected with genital warts. That should do it.
 
ravenstar said:
There's nothing you can say. You've said it already, your friend has basically said he doesn't care.

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Yes you are. Sloppy doesn't exist for anyone else. He's your own virtual imaginary friend.
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Yeah he's on permanent ignore too. Not cool to post crap in a serious thread like this. He's a waste of air IMO.

But ON TOPIC you have done what you could do. He's an adult and knows the risks and therefore will have to accept the possible consequences. Not judging here just saying.
 
I don't get why we're supposed to respect a dumb decision on the grounds that it would be made by an adult.
 
All you an do is tell him the risk and that u are doing it out of concern for him, after that..the rest is on him.

you can lead a horse to water ..but you can not make him drink.

he'd be a fool...ignorant fool not to heed the risk involved..
 
Sometimes when I know I NEED to have the other person listen to me...and I NEED to know they at least heard me...I take the time to get their attention. I have a lot of stubborn friends so I basically tell them I need them to give it a rest and relax for just a few minutes so they can hear me and then they can go back to being stubborn and even dismiss it if they so choose....

I can tell if they heard me by keeping eye contact with them and giving them 100% of my attention in the moment...

One you know he actually heard you...it is his decision to make.
 
Maybe your friend just needs a human story behind your caring warning. Yesterday, a 25 year old gay Russian LGBT activist died in St. Petersburg from AIDS related complications--his name was Nikolai Radujny. I met his close friend here in October. To read so many grieving comments from devastated friends whose lives were touched by Nikolai was hard even though I never knew him. When a young vibrant life is stolen by a preventable disease like HIV/AIDS it is more so cruel for everyone. He has touched countless lives and built communities for gay Russians with his LGBT activism.

http://vk.com/nikolairaduzhnyi http://vk.com/nickrainbow
 
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