i need advice!

[AlexUK321]

Basically I've phoned a guy I saw on the internet about meeting up so I can give him oral (I'm fairly young bi curious had sex with girls never done stuff with a guy and want to try it out) we agreed to meet in a public place and proceed to busy male toilets (cubicle) and basically I pulled out last minute to meeting him as I'm worried that ill regret it afterwards and feel really guilty. I really want to do it - but don't at the same time. What's your advice guys?x

 

[Aymotin]

Well mate, thats the exact same thing everyone feels on the platform of the very first Bungee-Jump. It´s normal

You want to try it, but you are not sure if you will be sorry fot it or enjoy it.

Regarding to your situation: As long as you play safe there is not so much to be worried about. Either you find out you like it or you think it was unpleasant/gross/terrible/whatsoever. Nothing really to "regret" since there is no guilt.

My advice would be: Jump. It´s the only way to find out, otherwise you will just play the old what-could-have-happened game.

Just be safe, thats all that matters.

Oh, and I would pick a place with a bit more flair, public man toilets wouldn´t be my choice

 

[KaraBulut]

Did you pull out because you weren't ready to blow a guy or because you weren't ready to blow a stranger in a public toilet?

 

[AlexUK321]

Thanks Aymotin, and well Kara I think I'm ready to blow a guy - I mean I really really want to, but I'm just not sure about a stranger per say and nobody knows I'm bicurious so I doubt ill be meeting anybody!

And where else though than toilets where would be safe and in 'public'?!

 

[Aymotin]

And where else though than toilets where would be safe and in 'public'?!

Well I had my first time in the changeroom in a big swimbath Not so much better, but way better than delivering your first blowjob ever while some fat guy in the next cabine shoots of his diarrhea
Or good old cinema when it´s not to full.

You could also go to his place or your place, depends on your feeling about the guy you meet.

You should meet him first in public, but if everything adds up and you have a good feeling there is no need to stay in public. Even in the US (where people seem to be concerned about that as if it happened every day) there are not so many meethim-rapehim-killhim serialkillers that appear as nice guys until the door closes

Take your time, find someone who is symphatic for you and inform him it´s your first time. Should be an understanding guy for that event

 

[Yves Grey]

I think Aymotin is trying to seduce you.

*ahem* And I quote: "............" End quote. ...

 

[KaraBulut]

Kara I think I'm ready to blow a guy - I mean I really really want to, but I'm just not sure about a stranger per say and nobody knows I'm bicurious so I doubt ill be meeting anybody!

Well, find a guy you're attracted to, meet up with him in a public place to talk and see if you're comfortable with him. If it feels right, then go back to your place or his place and do whatever you're comfortable doing.

If you're comfortable with him but still not ready, then set another time to hang out some more until you are ready.

And where else though than toilets where would be safe and in 'public'?!

The idea is to meet in a public place. It doesn't mean that you have to have sex in a public place. And as I mentioned above- you don't necessarily have to blow him the day you meet up with him.

A lot of guys get into the "get it over with" mindframe- kind of like jumping off the side of the pool and thinking it's the best way to learn to swim. If you have any doubts about whether you're interested in guys, wait until you feel it's right- the right time, the right place and the right person.