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I'm currently half in and half out of the closet. I came out to my mom for the first time before I turned 18, and she said she would be supportive and non judgemential. Long story short, she nagged me so much that I crawled back in the closet by faking a religious revilation. A couple months latter I came out to her again and I said I can't fake it anymore. Another long story short, she was nagging me so much I crawled back in but now she thinks I'm severely confused and bi. She also thinks i should get electric shock therapy and that I should get mentally reconfigured by a physic because shes been calling me miss wired. What do I do to end this constant barrage of gay comments and also end this strife that lasted over 2 years now.
 
Your mom needs to go see a good psychiatrist. She has the problem, not you.

If you go to shrink, be careful, and don't go to a religious nut. A good shrink will just tell you to be yourself.

Electric shock treatment is not used to treat homosexuality.
 
Move out.

It seems that each time she applies the pressure, she (in her eyes) manages to "cure" you. But now she's worried that she won't be there forever to keep the pressure on, so perhaps some other technique is in order.

Suggesting electro-shock therapy is the exact opposite of "non-judgmental" and "supportive".

Move out.

Lex
 
Far from helping you, your mother is driving you towards a psychologist when there is nothing wrong with you except that you are considering listening to her. She is the one who needs help, not you. The only thing she can do to help is to accept that you are who you are and be supportive and happy for you. Best thing you can do is to tell her that.

Good luck (*8*)
 
tell her u tried to have sex with a girl, but when she got naked, u screamed and ran, and cried in a corner.
 
Got to echo the advice--she's not looking out for you right now---move out.
 
thanks for the advice, I can't move out right now- don't have the money too, but will when I transfer to a college in nyc in a year and live with my aunt. I told my mom that I would move out if I could and she told me that I'm my age and everyone wants to leave home sometimes. And oh yeah, she started laughing and getting intense pleasure when I told here that I don't appreciate her electric shock comments.
 
Tell your mom to go to the doctor and say "I want my son to have electro shock because he is gay". The doctor's reaction should end that discussion

Electro shock is treatment for clinical depression. I have had electro shock and my mom had electro shock in 1959 when they did not use anaesthesia
 
Just don't talk to your mom about your sexuality anymore. If she asks, then deny, deny, deny...it works for me! :o)
 
Constantly nag her about some insecurity of hers.

Then move out.
 
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