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I need some kindly advice about coming out and hooking up with a hot guy

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"Hi. I have been wondering for a long time why it's been impossible for me to hook up with another guy.

ok, better late than never on this next thought. Lately, it seems like maybe I'm too on fire and just plain horny and it likely shows.

I had assumed that at least some guys would find this level of horniness and hunger a turnon. But I don't know. Ok, time for me to shut up"








This is strange. Maybe my computer is worn out and so nothing is working out. I keep losing posts before I am finished composing them.

Ok, I hope I'm not repeating myself, but here goes. I would love some advice from guys who know a lot more about this than I do.

So...........I'll shut up and wait for the nice advice. Is it possible I am just TOO horny and needy that it might put some guys off? I sort of can't help feeling this
"on fire" all the time. I've never been with another guy and I am very much horny as hell all the time, and practically drool when I meet a guy in a bar, or even a chance
meeting somewhere. That's it. enough of me.

I hope for some helpful advice from some you lovely gentlemen. Thanks so very much. Your turn now!!!

BillieBoy
 
How are you currently looking for hookups?
 
KaraBulut said:
How are you currently looking for hookups?
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Hi. Thanks for the reply. Mostly, I go to the gay phone chat lines, leave my greeting, and listen to other ads. So far, it's been
pretty much uneventful. II think I need to try to go to some gay bars, and not have too many expectations. That's about all I have been able to
think of so far. do ya think the chat lines might be a possibility?
 
KaraBulut said:
How are you currently looking for hookups?
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Hi again. I guess it's pretty obvious that what I have been trying is NOT working. The gay phone chat thing is not working for me.........
And my guts turn to knots when I even go near a gay bar. I have not tried stepping inside a gay bar.
Maybe I am being too brutally honest. I always make it CLEAR that I've never been with a guy before. And I really haven't

I don't know what to do, tru.ly. And I thank you for asking me the straight forward question that you asked. "what are you trying?"
I answered, and squared it with myself that it AINT working.

It was nice chatting briefly withyou. Happy New Years to you!

Sincerely, BillieBoy
 
If you're looking for NSA hookups, then you will need to move to a more expedient platform like one of the phone apps (Grindr, Scruff, et al) or an online hookup website. People want to see pictures. They also want to move fast because things move much faster in the online world.

The key piece of this is to know what you want, what you're looking for and what you're willing to do for it. If for example, you were looking for a Daddy-Son type of hookup, then Grindr might not be the best option and you might want to use a website like SilverDaddies. On the other hand, if you were a 20-something looking for another 20-something, then most of the 20-somethings are going to be on Grindr.
 
Hookup apps also have a high degree of flakiness so don't just assume it's you if someone is a no-show.
 
Instead if "looking for "A GUY" as in any guy I would suggest looking for sexual or some other kind of chemistry with a specific kind of guy where it clicks - a gay bar is a great place to do that.

I think "vibe" is the most important quality and it might happen via phone but I think it is a much clearer and stronger connection in person.

Good Luck!
 
Hello, and Thankyou to KaraBulut TX-Beau & cabinfever for your very nice posts and really good advice.

All of you are Dolls for taking the time to try to help me with your kind words.

What I am getting from your replies and my own soul searching is pretty much that I am not really ready for any of this.

Well, mostly, that part is from me. Aint quite ready. But there's no time like the present.

I should have been more specific in order to give y'all a fighting chance to be more specific in return.

What everyone said was great. But, here goes...........

Again, I needed to be much more specific in asking for advice. I really want a Tranny who like to be a domme and maybe be a switch once in awhile. It would have to be someone who is patient enough to sort of bring me along into being a Tranny myself.

Playing with and testing my limits with BDSM is a lot more honest, and yes, way more specific.

I'm sorry I did not mention that before. Also, looking back on the few days I goofed off with phone chat lines, well, looking back, the phone chat is pretty much pointless.

I'm pretty turned on by the idea of going to a salon and having my whole body shaved. And maybe venturing out to some Tranny bars here where I live.

Or maybe some good quality Tranny apps, if there is such a thing.

Meanwhile, I'll stick around JUS and just enjoy being here. It's really a hot and very hip website. I hope we can all talk again! And Thanks again. That was really nice of you all

BillieBoy

Ps; No more phone chat. Yikes!
 
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KaraBulut said:
How are you currently looking for hookups?
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By the way, is "Tranny" considered an offensive and/or derogatory word? I never thought it was. It seems pretty much ok to me.
But if it IS offensive or derogatory, maybe I shouldn't use it.

I honestly have no idea! Well, I hope it's not offensive to trans people. I think it sounds sexier than transvestite. Doesn't it?
 
KinkySlutNeedsFUN said:
By the way, is "Tranny" considered an offensive and/or derogatory word? I never thought it was. It seems pretty much ok to me.
But if it IS offensive or derogatory, maybe I shouldn't use it.

I honestly have no idea! Well, I hope it's not offensive to trans people. I think it sounds sexier than transvestite. Doesn't it?
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It's a matter of context. In porn, the term "tranny" is still used to describe the genre of "tranny porn", although the term is falling out of favor.

When talking about the community, their current preference is "transwomen" and "transmen". Don't put much worry into it because this community changes what they want to be called about once every 2 years, so it's hard to keep up.
 
KaraBulut said:
It's a matter of context. In porn, the term "tranny" is still used to describe the genre of "tranny porn", although the term is falling out of favor.

When talking about the community, their current preference is "transwomen" and "transmen". Don't put much worry into it because this community changes what they want to be called about once every 2 years, so it's hard to keep up.
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wow. you're spot on about THAT. it seems bloody impossible to keep up. and not just that one word, or phrase. I'm cool with being respectful to
anybody, and everybody. it seems though, the political correctness thing has been out of control for many years. I'll take you at your word,
and not lose too much sleep over it, for now anyway :cool:
 
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