I need some peoples opinions

[MrBigLoads]

So I am completely straight and have been with the same girl for many years. My current job requires me living away from home so I am only able to be with her a couple times throughout the year. Like any other man I get sexual urges. I love my girl and I dont want to cheat on her with another woman. I am not attracted to men at all I dont enjoy kissing or body contact. Would you consider it cheating if I only get head from men I meet on craigslist through either a gloryhole or blow and go situation?

 

[Cormac135]

As long as you stay safe, go for it, and of course it is cheating, but a boy has needs.

 

[GayGHOF]

Are you okay with her getting oral sex from others? Women have needs too, sometimes stronger then men have.

 

[rjason2425]

You've already been with guys and even mentioned a desire to suck a nice cock. I think you're a little in denial. Wnjoyed reading your experiences with guys though. Some hot stories. I'd suck you if you were in my area.

 

[ballcaphair]

Yes. Cheating is cheating.

 

[mcbrion]

Not judging, first of all, but if you do anything sexual (and these days, emotionally, too!) with someone other than your girlfriend, it's considered "cheating." (And if you don't think so, ask a woman (or several) what she thinks cheating is/is not.) But here's the dictionary definition you may not have thought to look up.

Cheating

"Someone who is in a committed relationship and breaks the trust of his or her partner by getting physically or emotionally involved with another person. Common forms of cheating include kissing, feeling each other up, vaginal, anal, oral sex and any other contact that involves the lips, hands, and genitals. Emotional cheating invovles forming a close bond with someone of your preferred gender and basically forming a second relationship. This may or may not include physical cheating."

 

[SeaCore]

Whether it's cheating or not is up to your partner and you. Not everyone has the same values when it comes to what defines the boundaries of a relationship.

For some people it's not cheating as long as you get their okay. For others it's doing anything beyond normal day-to-day interactions with strangers.

You probably need to talk it over with your girlfriend and let them tell you if it's cheating. And if you aren't willing to do so then that tells me you likely know what the answer is, in which case I'm fairly certain none of your suggestions are going to give you an out if you get caught.

It's not wrong for you to want intimacy or for you to want to explore how guys factor into your sexual schema. But it's not exactly fair to give yourself a set of options to get your sexual fulfillment without giving your partner the same courtesy.

And perhaps you've already done this, but modern tech gives couples a lot of options for being intimate even if they can't be together physically.

 

[mbynpm]

I say go for it.