I Need: Tips to act manly!

[EvilForce]

Be yourself. That's all the advice you need.

Agreed. Who you "really" are will come out soon enough anyway. Relax, and enjoy it.

 

[alley]

Just say dude....alot.

 

[G-Lexington]

The key word in "act manly" is "act".

Why do you want to, or need to, act manly? Just be you.

Lex

 

[nip/tug]

You have to know who played shortstop in the final game of the 1941 World Series. Both teams.

BUWHAHAHAH!!! thats funny!! ... but sadly true. esentially your gonna have to fill your time w learing about things you couldn't care less about. but i understand where your coming from. Your probably an average guy, not a queen but not a total butch lumber jack either. Smack dab in the middle is a weird place to be. But in my experineces trying to hard to over compensate for something, usally has the exact opposite effect. think about all those squirly "girls" that drive pickup trucks. noting gayer. even if that pickup was a VW bettle. in time you'll realize how to be most comfortable in your own skin. But till then there is nothing wrong with testing your limits.

but i once heard, avacado increases testerone level. and its delicious source of omega-3's ...2birds, one stonefruit

 

[nip/tug]

oh yeah! and i say dude all the time... i mean ALL the time... u'll just recive alot of quizical looks of "did you just call me dude?" but not nessecarly any more ph numbers

 

[runner]

Are you a girlie-boy? If you are that is good, if it is really who you are and not an act. Don't act.

 

[Blk_Thickness]

Like everyone else said, be yourself. No need to try and impress other people.

 

[texan_slant]

There should be no such thing as "acting manly" or "acting" any other way. Be yourself and have confidence in yourself.

I stopped pretending to enjoy watching sports, and that was pretty liberating for me.

 

[ashonfire]

Lift heavy things, scratch your nether-regions and listen to Nickleback.

This, as I understand it, is what real men do.

 

[Kurn]

Seriously: You might need, or, rather, would probably greatly benefit from taking up a body-strengthening program.
Yoga? Maybe. Weight-training? Maybe. Hint: Do what comes naturally to your body. Focus on your own strength and balance. Over time, this will all make you and your body happier. Your natural you-ness will come out and you won't need to give much thought to gender conformity.

This might not be the answer you want, though...

 

[Rex]

I agree with everyone here who says be yourself.

Nothing more annoying than fem gay guys who claim to be masculine and then disappoint me when I find out they were lieing.

 

[G-Lexington]

>>> like how everyone thinks that acting feminine=being yourself. if he didn't like the color of his hair, would it be wrong to dye it??

Dyeing your hair takes a $10 box of hair color and about half an hour. Altering your personality takes quite a bit of effort, and can cause some major mental and psychological strain. The two aren't in any way similar.

>>>Nothing more annoying than fem gay guys who claim to be masculine and then disappoint me when I find out they were lieing

And here we're seeing why the OP posted in the first place.

Lex

 

[youngnihilist]

just be yourself - which is probably on the more feminine side, since most gay men i've met are at least slightly feminine. oh well? who cares?

 

[EvilForce]

How to act manly:

 

[alley]

<<<< How about a macho avatar.

 

[G-Lexington]

I can post online with no avatar...
no avatar...
no avatar...

Sorry, got that damn Flobots song stuck in my head again.

Lex