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I put myself in a position...need advice

I repeat. but this time with candy colours

Oh just get it over with.

Go out.

Tell him you're a homo.

Ask him if this matters to him.

Tell him that being his boss means that you shouldn't fuck.

If he wants to anyway, then go ahead and do it.

And then live with it. Own it. Make the best of it.

Just don't sit around for the next five years of the remainder of your time on earth playing 'is he; isn't he'.
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Decaf for me. I'm trying to cut back on caffeine.
 
I think this story is fake. I might be wrong.
If i'm wrong sorry its just a forum. :)
 
I could bring a 3 layer dip and taco chips.
 
No, this is not a fake story at all! And you say that because I said some guys were funny? Read the comments just before I made that statement...guys were talking about baking while I wait to go out with my friend.....forgive the fuck out of me for thinking that was funny!! I do have a sense of humor!! Maybe before you post you should read first! To the rest of you guys with the great advice and insight....Thanks for being so cool!!! I really do appreciate your help! To those who may be interested , I will update you after this coming weekend when he and I spend the day together. Oh, and todays update: even though I gave him the day off he stoped by this afternoon to see me. Said he wished he was there with me today.
 
Make sure to keep us all up to date day by day.
 
Will do.....this is very important to me and I keep wondering if this may be the guy i have been waiting for. I sure hope so!
 
as this is a no flame zone, i have nothing to say.

He sounds hot ... :) i hope you both have a happy ending and marrying each other.
 
Well, as I said I would, here's the latest. After thinking thru all the comments and advice you guys gave me I did the best I could to step back and look at the whole picture. And that didn't give me any more answers than I had before. So I said nothing about me to him. He and I get along great, he is always saying I am the man, he drinks from my drink whenever he wants, he'll eat something and then offer me a bite, stuff like that. He seems to have no problem touching me or me touching him.
Today we spent most of the day together and as we walked together he kept close to me so as our shoulders and arms were touching alot. I let him drive my car when I took him home (because he made plans to go out to movie/dinner with his mom) and when we got to his house he just sat there and looked at me and said "now what?" with a big smile. We just kinda sat there for a couple minutes looking & smiling at each other. I wanted to say "kiss me and I'll come back later and pick you up, but of course I didn't. I just said, well your mom is probably waiting for you and he said "yeah, I bet" So, he then said, so, I guess I'll see you early in the morning? (at work)
I am so mixed up right now, I have driven myself crazy, I don't want to mess his head up or ruin what we have, yet I really need to settle this once and for all. I just wish I could read his mind! Well, thanks guys for reading all this, wish me luck and the courage to do what I have to.
 
OK if he's doing all this stuff like you say he is, and you're still confused, no one can help you.
 
>>>wish me luck and the courage to do what I have to.

Which is what? Remove yourself from the situation? Or yank his pants down and suck him off?

Lex
 
fiction is not much fun to read Terry.
I only like non fiction.
 
Maybe I was wrong to ask advice on my situation, I expected more understanding. So therefor I will end my posts on this thread. Bye and thanks again to those who were truley trying to help.
 
terry ...

You may no longer wish to post here, but I hope you're still reading ...

Listen, not ALL of us are as sceptical, nor as cynical, as some others' are. And, yeah!, to some extent I don't really blame them, given JUB's history of having some tremendous "Fakes" playing "Us" for their own amusement. And, given the internet, it will likely happen again, and again ...

But, until proven otherwise, I'm still more than willing to take people at their word, and that certainly includes You! Especially since I've found myself in some similar situations.

Now ... the only real way to clear things up is for you to have a chat with your young friend. Tell him that it is precisely because you value your friendship, so much, that you need to "clear the air", about a few things between you two.

Sincerely tell him that you are finding yourself very attracted to him. And, you're not entirely clear, given his reactions to/with you, that he might be feeling the same way. IF he is, that's Fantastic! However, IF you've been "reading" him wrong, then you needed to let him know how you've been feeling about his actions, and just had to, in HIS own interests, BECAUSE you CARE for him, let him know, in no uncertain terms, where you've been "coming from". AND ... if what you're feeling were NOT His intentions, then that's O.K., too, and you hope it won't change anything between you. Also, make it perfectly clear, that what happens from this point on, is Entirely up to Him.

It's only Fair that you "level the field", so to speak.

I'm sincerely hoping that all works out for the Better! But, even if it doesn't, and it will not be an easy conversation to have, either way it turns out, it's something that You still HAVE to do (given the whole situation)! (group)

Of course ... most Sincerely ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
And again I repeat:

Oh just get it over with.

Go out.

Tell him you're a homo.

Ask him if this matters to him.

Tell him that being his boss means that you shouldn't fuck.

If he wants to anyway, then go ahead and do it.

And then live with it. Own it. Make the best of it.

Just don't sit around for the next five years of the remainder of your time on earth playing 'is he; isn't he'.
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I find it interesting that time and time again, the OP posted about this sexual 'tension' that just fills the air when you're together, but not once did he ever really acknowledge the advice provided.
 
>>>I find it interesting that time and time again, the OP posted about this sexual 'tension' that just fills the air when you're together, but not once did he ever really acknowledge the advice provided.

Which is why I gave up. I no longer got the "is this a bad idea?" vibe, nor did I get the "am I making the right moves on him?" vibe. It basically became a soap opera thread - "and here's what happened last night". I think a few too many of us got snarky on him, rather than giving him the "wow, that sounds hot - go for it!" that perhaps he was expecting. But the regulars in CO&R have never been really good at being that kind of audience.

Lex
 
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