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I Refuse To Be Depressed

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It's another one of those lonely Saturday nights for me again. No calls, no emails, no instant messages...

I put up an ad on Craigslist a few hours ago, asking if anyone was interested in going to the gay strip (where all the gay bars and clubs are), but no one answered.

So...what do I do before I start meditating on my loneliness?
 
It happens. I, too, have been relegated to an uneventful Saturday evening.

But I have stuff to keep me busy.

And I know I'm going out tomorrow.

It happens. It's easier said than done, but try not to let it get to you.

You know, you can always go out by yourself!
 
Near the top of the screen here, there's a word in orange - chat.

Click it.

See what happens. :)

Lex
 
Dude, I'm in the same boat, like Lex says click the chat and come save me from the geek chat lol.
 
Definitely click chat and enjoy. Have many quiet Saturday night myself. I just take them in stride.
 
InnovativeBoxx said:
It's another one of those lonely Saturday nights for me again. No calls, no emails, no instant messages...

I put up an ad on Craigslist a few hours ago, asking if anyone was interested in going to the gay strip (where all the gay bars and clubs are), but no one answered.

So...what do I do before I start meditating on my loneliness?
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The last 104 Saturdays or so have been lonely for me. No calls, no emails, no instant messages, either. But you know what, I don't care. I'm happy being by myself. I enjoy spending time alone, doing things that I like to do. Today I had a nice steak dinner at a fancy restaurant, alone. Later tonight I think I might go for a nice walk, alone.

Learn to be happy by yourself, I think that is the key.
 
dude, you are not alone in feeling this way. evryone gets it once in a while.
be happy
 
Well I decided to visit some of my family I hadn't seen a while today because I knew tonight would be another lonely encounter.

I had fun earlier catching up with some of my folks.

After that, I went to the lake where there's a walking trail, with restaurants and shops fronting the waterway, and walked around a bit thinking about my life (or the lack of it). I got depressed seeing all these other people socializing with others, and I had no one to talk to. I felt out of place.

I'm home now here my by my lonesome. I guess I'm not suprised there haven't been any calls, emails, or instant messages. I would call someone first, but I don't know anyone to contact.

And my Dad is loudly snoring again, which means this will be my sixth night in a row sleeping in the car.

I hate my life. Someone please end it.
 
Gam zeh ya'avor - This, too, shall pass.

There are height and lows. You're at the trough of a large wave. Down the road, you'll crest.

Ride the wave. Do what you need to do to keep yourself moving forward.

ANy prospect of finding a place to live?
 
looseliam said:
ANy prospect of finding a place to live?
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Actually, yes. I was suppose to be gone from my dad's house, but unfortunately, scheduling conflicts occurred throughout the week, so I'm stuck here for another night.

To get some sleep, I've been sleeping in my car during the night. Since I'm not very (5'7" 140 lbs), sleeping in the backseat wasn't so bad. I do have a bit of back pain when I wake up, but I did get some sleep.
 
See, just one more night.

I would think you can make it. :)
 
I have had so many nights where I had no contact and nobody to hang out with that I thought my whole life would be like that. And crappy living conditions, yeah, I've had my share.

But things aren't always that way. Life sucks sometimes but it has a way of making up for it later it seems.

A year ago I was pretty much ready to kill myself.

But now I have a great group of friends who I go out and have fun with, and an amazing guy who is way out of my league for sexy time.

You just need to stick it out and keep an eye open for opportunities. New friends/jobs/lovers are everywhere. You never know where you're going to meet someone or make a new contact. Keep your head up and show some confidence when you go out, even if you have to fake it a little at first.

You'll be wishing your damn phone would stop ringing or everyone would stop IMing you at once before you know it.
 
marleyisalegend said:
Everyone around you must be clinically insane, there is no reason your fine ass should be lonely on a Saturday night.
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LOL. Well thanks for the compliment, Marley.

You know something? All week long I feel just fine, and I suppose I can attribute that to being in school and socializing with some of my peers, and having my schoolwork keep me occupied. My life during the week is great.

It's just the weekend that gets me down, because of the lack of "activity" as supposed to Monday-Friday.

I'm working on it though. Thanks for your support!
 
InnovativeBoxx said:
LOL. Well thanks for the compliment, Marley.

You know something? All week long I feel just fine, and I suppose I can attribute that to being in school and socializing with some of my peers, and having my schoolwork keep me occupied. My life during the week is great.

It's just the weekend that gets me down, because of the lack of "activity" as supposed to Monday-Friday.

I'm working on it though. Thanks for your support!
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I am in the same boat as you, except I dont work just now. I used to go see my mum every day but now she says just every other day so i can go sometimes 48 hours without seeing someone I know. Thats just the way it is for me and Im joining new social group lately and thats all you can do

theyre right, you have to put yourself out there to meet someone and its better to be alone than with crazy ppl or in a bad relationship
 
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