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I seem to have this insane issue with.....cuddling?

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And when I say I have an 'issue with' cuddling, I don't mean that I'm 'against' it but rather...I want to do it a lot and can get a little too excited about it and maybe unintentionally aggressive in the process. You know how when you're a pet shop or something, and you're surrounded by cute little puppies and you simply can't control yourself you just want to cuddle with those puppies and never let them go....I get like that with cute guys I meet. The shyer and cuter he is, the more I want to wrap my arms around him and snuggle my head against his and maybe even talk a little baby talk to him.

I know this is something that most (if not all) people in our society would find irritating and annoying but I can't seem to help it, ever since I was a little kid it's something I've done whenever I saw or fantasized about a cute guy. Why do you think I'm like this? How can I stop? I don't WANT to scare men away, but when they're so fricken adorable and look like cuddly-wuddly material I don't think I'd be able to help it.....:cry:
 
Re: I seem to have this isane issue with.....cuddling?

Well...stop the baby talk. It is the first step in the right direction. If another man talks baby talk to me, even without touching me, I would run for the hills. :eek:
 
Re: I seem to have this isane issue with.....cuddling?

But why? I'd like to think any cute guy would like being told over and over again how cute and adorable he is. Oh yes him IS! Yes him is! What a cute little baby-waby! Oh hims a cutie pie!! Coochie-coochie-cooo! Wittle stud muffin, yes him is! :luv:
 
Approach with caution! As you are aware of what you want...figure out what HE wants and is comfortable with before you proceed.

I think it took my lover about a year and a half to be able to cuddle with me...he is quite proud of his feat of breaking me down. I used to think cuddling was too intimate and I prided myself on being emotionally unavailable and cuddling required me to take off my mask and become emotionally available and vulnerable. It was a battle of wills...and one of timing...he won.

Oh yeah...the baby talk...I agree...not really the best approach..|. If my man had done that...he would not have succeeded.
 
Re: I seem to have this isane issue with.....cuddling?

CShields said:
But why? I'd like to think any cute guy would like being told over and over again how cute and adorable he is. Oh yes him IS! Yes him is! What a cute little baby-waby! Oh hims a cutie pie!! Coochie-coochie-cooo! Wittle stud muffin, yes him is! :luv:
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The baby talk has got to go until well into a relationship and then only in private and as a low key experiment. Just sayin.' Being ok with baby talk is rare, I'd guess. I'm a sensitive guy and I can't tolerate it when it's directed at a baby.
 
Re: I seem to have this isane issue with.....cuddling?

CShields said:
But why? I'd like to think any cute guy would like being told over and over again how cute and adorable he is. Oh yes him IS! Yes him is! What a cute little baby-waby! Oh hims a cutie pie!! Coochie-coochie-cooo! Wittle stud muffin, yes him is! :luv:
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I wouldn't mind being told that I was cute or adorable, but the last 6 sentences in your post are totally nonsensical and would be a total turnoff.
 
I agree with what everybody has said. I'm a hopeless, professional cuddler--I love being held, giving hugs, and all that. But even I wouldn't be able to stand that kind of baby-talk.

In fact, I experienced a toned-down version of what you described in my last relationship--my partner would talk to me in a cute, baby kinda way sometimes, and eventually (or maybe even quite rapidly), our sex life just went to nothing. Yes, he did gain some weight, but I don't think that would've been a deal-breaker. I still find him (to this day) to be cute and good-looking, but I just can't reconcile the cute baby-talk with the hot, man-to-man sex that we were supposed to have.

So, really, please proceed with caution with the baby talk. I think for some guys, cuddling, hugging them might be fine, but try to keep the baby talk out of it.
 
Re: I seem to have this isane issue with.....cuddling?

hotatlboi said:
I wouldn't mind being told that I was cute or adorable, but the last 6 sentences in your post are totally nonsensical and would be a total turnoff.
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LMAO I was actually joking around with that just to see how you guys would react. Of course I wouldn't lay the baby talk on THAT thick...or apparently at all. Maybe after a few years into the relationship I'd LIGHTLY maybe tell my man how cute I think he is but I wouldn't talk like that...unless I was doing it as a joke to push his buttons or something....but even then that sounds like a pretty dumb reason to dump a guy.
 
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