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I just wanted to take a moment and Thank all of you from the bottom of my heart.
Your love and support has been everwhelming.

This morning, was the service for my dear sweet Forrest. I'm at a loss for words as to what to say. I do have a strong support circle of friends, and my mother is coming from Israel Friday.

I wanted to thank you, scrub22 for the poem, I had it read this morning at the service.

Now, comes the hard part...how do I put my life back in order. I have asked for some quiet time, some my time....I have put on a brave face for days now...and I need to let it out...Even tho my body is badly broken, it will heal..but I have no idea how to pick up my heart that is in a thousand pieces....

I know I'm rambling, but wanted to let you know how much I appreciate all of you..I send my love and will talk again later..

Shaun

For those of you you did not hear, my partner and I was in a car accident 1/2/07,
Forrest was badly burned, infection set in, and I lost him over the week end..

LOve to all...
 
I remember reading the post about the accident I did not know you lost your partner. My sincerest condolences to you, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
 
herenthere said:
I just wanted to take a moment and Thank all of you from the bottom of my heart.
Your love and support has been everwhelming.

This morning, was the service for my dear sweet Forrest. I'm at a loss for words as to what to say. I do have a strong support circle of friends, and my mother is coming from Israel Friday.

I wanted to thank you, scrub22 for the poem, I had it read this morning at the service.

Now, comes the hard part...how do I put my life back in order. I have asked for some quiet time, some my time....I have put on a brave face for days now...and I need to let it out...Even tho my body is badly broken, it will heal..but I have no idea how to pick up my heart that is in a thousand pieces....

I know I'm rambling, but wanted to let you know how much I appreciate all of you..I send my love and will talk again later..

Shaun

For those of you you did not hear, my partner and I was in a car accident 1/2/07,
Forrest was badly burned, infection set in, and I lost him over the week end..

LOve to all...
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I am so sorry about your the loss of your partner Forrest and really don't know what to say except my prayers and thoughts go to you and your families in this difficult time.Take all the time you need to mourn and reflect,and just remember the good things,the fact you and Forrest had the time together you did which enriched both your lives so greatly.You have lots of love and support here,Shaun...take care and just give yourself the time to heal and gather yourself.(*8*)
 
Shaun

My thoughts have been with you all week. You are most welcome for the poem. I am glad you enjoyed it. Right now is your time. Spend it how you wish and need to. Take things one day at a time, the future will take care of itself.

Best wishes
 
Shaun, I am so sorry to hear that Forest passed, please accept my deepest sympathy's!
Death is one of the hardest thing to get pass, for everyone mourns in their own way. What may work for one person will not work for someone else.
Elvin had some great advice, take your time to heal and mourn this loss. My thoughts are with you!
 
I'm so sorry, Shaun. It's not the most original post, but stay strong. ::hug::
 
Both you and Forrest are in my prayers.

As before, my condolences.
 
Yes, always feel free and welcome to release your emotions here at JUB if you ever feel the need. Thre are people here who are always willing to offer support.
 
Time, that's all I can say. With time it will get better.
 
Shaun; my thoughts are with you. I'm sincerely sorry about your loss and am saddened to learn of Forrest's passing. Best of luck with your recovery; ramble all you'd like, and we'll do our best to help you insofar as typewritten comforting is able.

Mike
 
herenthere said:


I just wanted to take a moment and Thank all of you from the bottom of my heart.
Your love and support has been everwhelming.
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I've been thinking about you since your post. And really, there are no words to explain how heartbroken I am. For you. I can't imagine the pain you must be feeling. But like a few of the others have said, time will help to heal it. Just make sure you take the time you need, mourn as much as you need to and vent all you like.

(*8*)

Chris
 
I'm still very shocked by the turn of events that took Forest away from you. I'm glad that you have some support. Write to us any time you need to talk.

(*8*)
 
So terribly sad to hear of your loss and pain. You do need time for yourself, as it is part of the healing process. In the days ahead don't worry about what would have been, but rather cherish what was. Whilst Forrest may not be there for you to touch and hold, he will always remain with you and be a part of who you are. Take some comfort in that. (*8*)
 
Shaun,

Although I don't know you personally, your story has affected my more than you know. I have nothing in my life that can even come close to me imagining what you must be feeling, but please accept my sincere condolences. I hope in some way, the responses here on Jub help you at least a little. I wish there was something I could do. Just remember you have many here thinking about you and praying for you and wanting to do whatever is possible to ease your pain. I hope you find a way to "let it all out". If you need even just an ear, let me know. I'm here as I'm sure so many others are in whatever capacity you feel can be of benefit.
 
Shaun,

There is a wealth of good, practical, helpful advice and suggestions from the kind and caring members who have responded to your deep need. Consider each word and mine it for the gold within. For a long time I doubted that time would help ease the pain, but there is a sense in which it helps substantially. That is that with the passing of the days, new experiences and sensations dilute the sheer, raw, abrasive hurt that just won't seem to stop, ever. You can make it. People have been bearing the unbearable things since love first happenned. We care. Deeply.
 
I weap for your loss. I hope for your recovery. I wish for you strength.

"And when I shall die, take him and cut him up in little stars,

and he will make the face of heaven so fine that all the world will fall in love with night

and pay no worship to the garish sun."

Juliet said of Romeo
 
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