i struggle getting toys up my ass...

[TylerDurden222]

i own a few toys (aneros, beads, plugs) but have never been fully able to get them in my ass comfortably. as soon as they get up my ass, i have to shit immediately! after i blow ass in the toilet, i clean up and then can get a littel bit more comfortable, but still not to the point of being pleasurable. all the toys are small in size. is my hole just too tight? did you start this way as well? i've never been fucked in the ass, but when the day comes, i fear my tight hole will disallow the dick from getting in me...

 

[2pourvous]

have a drink or 2 on me before you start

 

[Telstra]

i own a few toys (aneros, beads, plugs) but have never been fully able to get them in my ass comfortably. as soon as they get up my ass, i have to shit immediately! after i blow ass in the toilet, i clean up and then can get a littel bit more comfortable, but still not to the point of being pleasurable. all the toys are small in size. is my hole just too tight? did you start this way as well? i've never been fucked in the ass, but when the day comes, i fear my tight hole will disallow the dick from getting in me...

yep, my tight hole disallow dicks to get inside too. Just too tight and painful.

 

[LoveIsNow]

I don't like anal sex personally, but just as a thinking person, I'd say you should probably defecate the first time before you start playing. Also,you'd ought to take plenty of time manually stretching the anus with your fingers before putting in the toy, and use plenty of lube.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

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[Zeno Lorea]

i own a few toys (aneros, beads, plugs) but have never been fully able to get them in my ass comfortably. as soon as they get up my ass, i have to shit immediately! after i blow ass in the toilet, i clean up and then can get a littel bit more comfortable, but still not to the point of being pleasurable. all the toys are small in size. is my hole just too tight? did you start this way as well? i've never been fucked in the ass, but when the day comes, i fear my tight hole will disallow the dick from getting in me...

I'm more comfortable with a ten inch dick up my ass than a little finger! I love cocks, but anything else feels wrong. It's really the feeling of fingers (bones?), plastic toys, etc that I hate. A dick is just more flexible, no matter how hard.

 

[bunny34]

try poppers

 

[TylerDurden222]

try poppers

what are poppers?

 

[poppilious]

try slowly massaign the outside of your butt...gently, then start pressing your thumb on your hole like you are ringing a doorbell...continue, also have a cocktail to relax you...

 

[JayTen]

yep all this is good advice, except I have no idea what "poppers" are....but ye its good you're trying to practice how wide you're hole can open, its like a training if you will. for the real thing =D

 

[jgpingpong]

poppers are an inhalant drug. besides giving you an incredible head rush, they say it helps relax your sphincter muscle. they aren't for everyone, but i like to use them. they give me an awesome orgasm, and have helped me get my dildos in me. now when they say it helps relax, it doesnt mean it wont hurt. it just makes it easier to put things inside, so make sure you do a little fingering still to loosen up a bit.

 

[spooger]

there is a device called the shower shot which is an enema device to clean your rectum before play or anal sex....it helps!

google shower shot or go here >> http://www.forttroff.com/pigmart/index.mvc?Category_Code=RS&Screen=CTGY&Store_Code=troff.. the one illustrated is a portable one but there is also one for permanent installation at the shower head with a valve to divert water flow into or away from the device which is on a hose so it can be inserted into the rectum

i don't use this device, and you may not either.... i see you're married and not out, so it may be weird to install an enema device in your shower... there would be questions...

i take the shower head off of the extension hose (not a fixed shower hwead, but one on a hose) and place a reasonably strong but manageable stream of water at my anus to fill my rectum... then i step out of the shower to the toilet and let it go...

rinse....repeat....and voila = clean ... the douche action also helps to relax my sphincter muscle...

be advised, however, that repeated enemas affect the mucus membrane of your rectum in that it removes the mucus lining so you must use generous lube to insert and play with anal toys ... or dicks if you intend to let someone do you

the occasional enema and anal play has done me no harm, but i would advise caution to go slowly and not to do this to the extreme ...

have fun... i hope this helps....

 

[Monkeydonkey]

what are poppers?

They are a sort of liquid in a bottle you snort/swallow that relax your muscles and keep you 'cool'

 

[TylerDurden222]

thanks guys. amazingly the other night i slide in my Aneros Progasm without any discomfort, and its the biggest of all my toys! just need to relax and be patient i guess. pardon the pun, but i guess i'll keep "plugging" away