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I think I am going with my gut but...

IMO, don't go. You still need time to get over the ending of the relationship and how it ended.
More to the point, he showed you what kind of person he was when he cheated on you and his actions afterwards.
You don't need that kind of person as a boyfriend and you certainly don't need him as a friend.
 
I've had friends who have gone through "good" breakups, or at least ones where they remain friends afterwards.
None of them involved being cheated on and then basically being mocked with their new relationship.
You made the right call. Don't allow yourself to be used as an ego boost for two people who have no qualms about cheatings on their bf/wife.
 
biguy562 said:
...By the way, he did not cheat, but he did this a couple times before with his first girlfriend and his boyfriend before me...his "feelings" changed for both of them.
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Sugar, he cheated. There's no way I'd go. Why does his partner want to meet you? Good question, does he? Did the guy contact you himself? The only reason I can think of for the guy to want to meet you would be to demonstrate he got the ex, to counter his own insecurities.

Anyway you dodged a bullet, this guy is completely flaky. He got into an engagement one month after he left you? Either he was seeing that other guy all along, or their relationship is going to tank just as quickly as it started.
 
TX-Beau, I agree with you 100%. They actually made it "official" that they were dating 2 days before he broke up with me. They had been "seeing" each other since the end of June, in fact I remember when their first date was. My ex lied to me about staying with his mom for the night and his cell phone was going dead and forgot his charger BLAH!
 
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