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MrGlamorous

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this will sound completely stupid :( but i need to know...

well i met this guy totally hot like jizz in your pants hot lol

and he drove me from my house late at night to the city (3hrs from mine )

i was nervous and scared but once we got to his place he showered and walked out and said alright bed time ( 5am) and he said you coming... i said okay and slips into ck boxers and said hurry.. i stripped to my underwear and shirt i asked where will i sleep he said there is a baby bed or share mine.. i said aha thanks i dont think ill fit in the baby bed so i slid in next to him and we started to watch gossip girl than i saw him re arrange him self.. i kinda giggled like a school girl lol and he looked at me and said what?.. i said looks like you got a unwanted friend.. he poked me and said shut up..

anyway half an hour later i rolled over and he started spooning me ... (i was so scared i didn't know what to do because first time and all )

anyway he felt that i was hard and started to play with me...


i shall skip the details:P anyway after wards he feel asleep and i couldnt sleep at all.. all i could think is how i should feel but all i felt was emptness and dirty..

so i showered and everything but my bbrain just kept making me feel bad i mean it was fucking amazing but omg i feel so empty and exposed !

is this normal?
 
Sometimes we build expectations of what should be and fail to enjoy what is. Your feelings were / are natural. It does not sound like you have a lot "invested" in this person. That you do not know him or care about him. You might want sharing your body with someone to be special. You might want being with someone to be special.

Well, it can be, but you have to know that person and want that person and want to share yourself with that person. It usually is more than just physical.

Also, you might have felt "forced" by circumstance and peer pressure to do or go further than you felt comfortable going / doing. That too is a legitimate feeling under the circumstance.

Look forward - - do you want a relationship with this person? If so, get to know the person - get to love the person. I think and hope the feelings will change for you then.

do celebrate your life,
Rand
 
yeah i like him but he made it clear afterwards that i was nothing but friends with benifits
 
So was his declaration before or after your feelings? If after, what impact did they have on your feelings?

I hope you can take some positives away from the experience.

1) a "hot like jizz in your pants hot" guy wanted to spend time with you

b) he wants a type of relationship with you

Now what is it that you want? The act of sex does not make you feel loved or in love; hopefully, being in loved and being loved heightens the pleasure of sex. If you are wanting to fall in love, please date and make lasting relationships. Make friends first and then lovers.

Just getting physical normally only satisfies the physical. If you are needing more, you are going to have to invest more.

Do hope you find joy and do celebrate your life,
Rand
 
i liked him before the sex. Then when we were at CK underwear shop he said that he only wanted a casual sex nothing more and i was a little heart broken seeing i gave the only thing i has control over to him :( and now he wont even talk to me :(
 
Sorry to hear you've been having a bad run mate, been reading your other posts and I know how you feel.

If you need to chat to any other Aussies I'm here
 
(*8*)

Breathe, MrG, you'll feel better in time.

If you are unhappy having had sex with this guy, then next time you will know to be more certain of the relationship before you share yourself physically.

It does hurt to give yourself to someone who does not give back in the same way, or to the same degree, but that is how we find out what we want/need in life.

I've been where you are, it does pass, and you will find someone who will want as much out of sex as you do. When you do you will be totally blown away by the power and the love. Do not worry man, it will happen.

:wave:
 
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