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I think i might have a date

sdstud1222

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ok. let me start off my second thread on jub by thanking all of you for your comments. they have all really helped me accept myself and start moving forward with my "gay" life. so basically ive been talking to this guy a lot at school and im 99% sure hes straight. but i have a crush on him. so i kinda hit on him a lil in class and stuff. and he makes comments back (sexual somewhat joking around) but part of me thinks hes serious. so i asked him to hang out tomorrow night and he said yes. so we are going out to dinner and i am going to try and see if he is interested. im really excited to hang out with him even if he has no idea that im gay or want to "date" him. just thought id tell you all since im really excited.
 
Play it cool and dont come on to strong. If he is'nt really sure about his sexuality, being agressive might scare him away, while taking it easy will make him feel more comfotrable with you.

There, daddy has given you his advice. Now be a good boy and keep us posted.
 
Do not overdo the Big Gay Thing. Be natural and laid-back.

The rest will come by on its own.

If it doesn't, that's how the cookies crumbles, so you respect his ways and he does yours.

Do us all a huge favor and do not start another thread about 'a str8 friend you cannot have'. Thanks.

SC
 
well i somewhat hung out with him this morning. i took pictures of him surfing. then gave him a ride home which was fun. we are still goin to dinner tonight. i hope everything goes well
 
sdstud1222 said:
well i somewhat hung out with him this morning. i took pictures of him surfing. then gave him a ride home which was fun. we are still goin to dinner tonight. i hope everything goes well
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Good luck! Let us know how it goes!
:shamrock
 
well it turns out other people are coming to dinner now which is a major bummer. even though either way i would be bummed cus i know he doesnt have any idea i wanna be more than friends
 
be just friends - we all need friends
maybe he will want more, but a true friend is something to die for

hope things work out for you
 
Well, still go and be his friend. There may still be hope for something more.
 
Don't take your relationship for more than it is.

I wouldn't consider your first meeting "a date", because he certainly wouldn't say he was dating you, he has no idea you even like him.

If you feel like there's potential, then drop some hints, but it sounds like he just wants to be your friend and it would be best not to push that friend away by pushing for something he doesn't want.
 
ivyguy24 said:
I wouldn't consider your first meeting "a date", because he certainly wouldn't say he was dating you, he has no idea you even like him.
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As I understand it, when you make plans to meet someone in this type of situation it is called a date. When you keep having dates it is referred to as dating

IMHO
 
yeah, I know but...I always thought that if someone is going out "on a date" it means it was a meeting with romantic interest on both sides. Both people involved have to consider it a meeting of romantic interest. It just seems out of context. I mean, if I were going to dinner with my best friend (Lets call him/her Alex)...I certainly wouldn't say "I have a date with Alex tonight." To me, at least, it implies there is more going on than just hanging out.

I don't know, maybe I use the word too strictly.
 
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