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i think i was raped...confused?

The question is, How many more guys will he do this to before he's stopped?

First go to the police and file a report. Then off to your doctor for STD testing.
 
What an asshole. Report it if you feel comfortable doing it. BUT you will not I suspect. Find someone to talk to. A rape counselor, a victim program, You need to work through how you feel about this even if you dont hold him accountable. You can not save the world but you can save you. So find someone to talk to in your community. Try PFLAG Anchorage, they can point you in the right direction. I would encourage you to do something about this asshole but really you must help you first.

Try something here:
Stop Abuse For Everyone (SAFE) http://www.safe4all.org/

“Stop Abuse For Everyone (SAFE) is a human rights organization that provides services, publications, and training to serve those who typically fall between the cracks of domestic violence services: straight men, gays and lesbians, teens, and the elderly. We promote services for all victims and accountability for all perpetrators.”

Domestic Violence - Another Prospective

Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women

24 crisis line 1-888-7HELPLINE

Yahoo Group for Battered and Abused Men

PHONE NUMBERS:
Alaska
Anchorage - The Men's Center Inc 907-272-4822
Anchorage - Male Awareness Program, 907-279-9581,
24 crisis hotline 907-272-0100

Finally, let me say that I find myself very attracted to guys like yourself. Inexperienced is a thrill for many gay men. However, what this man has done is HIS sickness and not your fault. Help your self and work through the issue. If you can then hold him accountable so he can not freely do this again. He needs to be helped or to be stopped from being able to do this bullshit or it will happen again because he is the one who is fucked up not you.
 
Get your friends to beat the living hell out of him with out him knowing who they are. He does not deserve anything else. There really is no real mature way to deal with this. You were robbed. He deserves no mercy.
 
You should report it, get some help, get check out as you dont know he has, get legal advise.

But if your not out and ready to have all this in the open you may have to deal with it. Which may be hard by your self.

Of course he will say it was consentual sex and you wanted it. Maybe you did, but when you said stop. This means stop.

The guy is a asshole, but make sure you warn people on that site you met him on and let everyone know.

This kind of asshole will always try to make it look like you wanted it and it's all your fault. who's to say he has not done this to other guy's and no said anything. Someone has to finaly stand up and raise all the red flags.
 
As everybody else mentioned, report this to the police and get tested for STDs.

Remember this isn't your fault!
 
I agree with the rest of the guys on here. It was Rape. I am so sorry that you had to go through that and it breaks my heart. I cried after reading your post. Please take "puff's" post seriously and get tested and inform the authorities.
 
Lube said:
I don't know if I'd call it rape. It sure sounds like you wanted to see what would happen.

He's definitely an asshole, that's for sure.

You chatted for 3 months? Doesn't sound like an asshole like that would spend the time to chat for 3 months. Just sounds suspicious.
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Wanted to see what would happen? Are you out of your mind? It doesn't matter if even half way through, he wanted him to stop. When you say stop, when you say no, and the person DOESN'T stop...it then becomes rape. Maybe you need to educate yourself.
 
"i don't know if i asked for it and part of my enjoyed it i think. it's twisted. i feel so fucked up. "

you wanted it to be played it that way.what ? 3 mths .
did he tell you he want to fuck you ?
foreignadaption , i do not buy yr story .:^o

but it was a bit kinky thou.
 
HARDROCKERS said:
"i don't know if i asked for it and part of my enjoyed it i think. it's twisted. i feel so fucked up. "

you wanted it to be played it that way.what ? 3 mths .
did he tell you he want to fuck you ?
foreignadaption , i do not buy yr story .:^o

but it was a bit kinky thou.
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What... difference does that make?
 
sunoftheskye said:
What... difference does that make?
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come on , he was chatting with a guy for 3mths ,

don't you get it ?
he said "part of my enjoyed it " .

do you think he was raped !
you go to the cop & " say you enjoyed it ", you just lost yr case.
 
And that's something that rape victims often consider (whether they enjoyed it or not), especially when they start blaming themselves for what happened. And why do they blame themselves? Because of people like you.

You still didn't answer my question. What difference does it make whether the guy told him he wanted to fuck him or not?

Even if I told someone to come over to my house right now and fuck me, if when they enter me, I change my mind and beg them to stop, and they don't...it's rape.
 
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