I think I'm bi?

[probeteam1]

hey, all! remember me, the OP

What's the solution?

Forgive me if I repeat something that has already been said. I think I would base my judgment on this:

I don't really know if I am gay or not. I can tell you i've only been with 1 guy, although, if I were to drop a few pounds, would be a total slut in that department.
Haven't been with any women.

I just can't see myself spending the rest of my life with a man, just don't know why. Just seems o have to picture that entire family package, wife, kids, etc, etc. I am in my late 20's and just seems important.

All and all, my take on things is women are for love and men are for sex.

Is this wrong or am I just in denial

You seem to enjoy sex with men. You don't even mention sex with women. For that matter, you don't really mention love; you mention the desire to have a wife and children.

If you are sexually attracted to both sexes, then I would say that you are bisexual. It's a simple, useful working definition. If you are solely sexually attracted to men, then Iwould say that you are a gay man who nonetheless still wants the tradtional american dream of a house, a wife, a dog, and 2.5 kids. As you already confess desire for men, I wouldn't call you heterosexual.

I won't say you're in denial, but I'd hold off on saying "women are for love" until you actually come to love someone. You might be surprised. Also, wanting a wife and children, etc., is not the same as loving a woman.

Still, if you do find yourself emotionally attracted to women and physically attracted to men, I doubt you'd be the first, and such a set of attractions tends to fall into the margins of "bisexual."

Only you can say.