I think my roommate caught me watching him masturbate...

[curiousaussi]

And I really don't know what to do. The last week or so I've gotten into the habit of sneaking outside the back of the house late at night hoping to catch him jacking off as sometimes he doesn't close his curtains all the way and I can get a good view through a small gap in them. I've done it two or three times without him noticing (he wears headphones while watching porn) but tonight I was distracted playing with myself and he leaned forward andi swear he turned and looked straight at me. I ran as fast as I could and went for a walk around the block. When I got back I cautiously went back to his windowtofi d the blinds fully shut. What should I do?

 

[dadbear69]

Stop looking in the window!
If he does not bring it up, move on.

 

[LuckysRevenge]

You fucked up. It was a blatant disregard of privacy.

Don't do it anymore. Don't even think about doing it. Just hope he doesn't bring it up. Maybe he didn't notice.

 

[aaggii]

Check a psychiatrist.

I hope he called the cops.

 

[Seasoned]

This sounds like sex addiction and could lead to serious consequences. Porn fantasies don't all work in real life especially the ones that lack mutual consent.

 

[Ganoderma]

hi curiousaussi,

I get somehow the idea that you are a student (excuse me if I am wrong). I would like to advise you to tell the truth to him. A good first step could be to tell him that you would like to talk with him about a serious item in a private surrounding. So he is aware you need to tell him something. Just tell him during daytime (with or without alot of other people around you and him) that you would like to discuss this with him in private, let say at 9PM in your room (or in his room, or where ever). Go to him and tell him straightforward the truth and apologize for your behaviour. Any idea what would happen when you will tell the truth to him and you have apologized for your behaviour? Any idea if this guy is a homophobe? I assume you are gay (are people around you aware that you are gay)? Are you afraid you need to disclose you are gay when you need to tell him about your behaviour?

Good luck and take care.

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

You should have respect for your roommate, or, you should live alone.

 

[palbert]

If this is limited to your roommate, stop.

If you do this other times with other people, stop and seek help.

The cops generally take the side of the person spied on.

 

[peeonme]

And I really don't know what to do. The last week or so I've gotten into the habit of sneaking outside the back of the house late at night hoping to catch him jacking off as sometimes he doesn't close his curtains all the way and I can get a good view through a small gap in them. I've done it two or three times without him noticing (he wears headphones while watching porn) but tonight I was distracted playing with myself and he leaned forward andi swear he turned and looked straight at me. I ran as fast as I could and went for a walk around the block. When I got back I cautiously went back to his windowtofi d the blinds fully shut. What should I do?

If the curtains only have a gap could he have seen your face? He may have no idea of who was peeking.
Obviously what you did was wrong, if he brings it up apologize. Please get out of this kind of behavior, you could end up in jail.

 

[Nubajon]

If this kind of behavior continues you need to face the fact you have a problem with voyeurism with could get out of control and cause you a lot of problems. There is a 12 step program that can help called Sex Addicts Anonymous. It's best to get this under control before it gets you into trouble. Good luck.

 

[TX-Beau]

If you just happened to walk by and his window was open that's one thing, but repeatedly pulling your cock while watching him is creepy, and probably illegal.

Did he know you like guys?

 

[Vocodr]

Stop this 'Peeping Tom' behaviour at once. Get yourself to a counsellor or psychologist pronto you can't stop yourself, so you can come up with some strategies for beating this addiction (and if you can't stop yourself it IS an addiction). As for whether your roommate caught you - it sounds like he might have seen or suspected someone was out there but he doesn't necessarily know it was you. In fact, if it was dark outside he probably couldn't see you properly. Either way, I'd advise acting like nothing happened and don't mention anything about this to him unless he brings it up. I would NOT take Ganoderm's advice under any circumstances - your roommate probably doesn't know what you did, and he may become very angry if you tell him. There is no need to tell him, it's not going to help you or your roommate, or change what happened in the past.