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I think that my brother is gay

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I think that my brother is gay.

But I have always been quiet about it. He is feeling depressed and lonely sometimes and I encouraged him to take some studies in the States and he always said he has "commitment" back home. He refuse to explain the "commitment". and I also don't want to ask directly if he is gay in case......

what do you think I should do??
 
Friends, family, job? You know your brother better than anyone on here, but there are other possibilities.

Aside from that, I wouldn't explore this idea further. Leave it to your brother to tell you when he's ready on his own time.
 
Then just sit with him one day and tell him that you are here for him if he needs to talk about anything. And that you understand his fears and that you could open about anything.

But you want him to be happy and be the person he wants.
 
I agree with racer 2438!!!! Just talk to him and be there for him :)
 
G-Lexington said:
Big obvious question - does HE know that YOU're gay?

Lex
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Hi! What Lexington asked. :)

If you are out to him, think about how difficult it was perhaps for you to come out to him or to other for that matter as well as accepting your sexual identity yourself.

I think your best approach would be to indicate to him that no matter what you will always be there for him and just wait it out. If he is gay, he has to feel ready and comfortable to let you know.
 
Hey Euro.



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Now, back to the issue... Lex is (as usual) right. If bro don't it is hard for the talk to flow.

Get with him, tell him he seems a little down to you and ask if there is something you can do to help...even if it is just listening. Reinforce you love him and anything he tells you is strictly between the two of you. Play the game..I'll tell you a secret if you tell me one...sounds silly but it does work, not always, but other than death and taxes what does always work? Good Luck to you and bro.
 
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