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I thought saying something would make me feel better

TickTockMan

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Not really. Now they know though and the ball is in their court on what to do.
 
Have you just come out ?

I always thought you were way past that stage.
 
Croft85 said:
How did it go?
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It's complicated. It didn't go good or bad. I don't expect anything from her. I know I have nothing to offer. Even when I was considered successful people only liked me for my money and power (except maybe one) and I have neither now being disabled. I know I am not a catch.
 
Cormac135 said:
Well i didn't know that, good on you for opening up to her, the ball is now in her court.
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I have AS. I don't really care what people think so I never hid my sexuality. If people don't like it that is their problem. Funny thing is when I worked so many people said I lied to them about being straight when I never once said I was straight. They had been to my place for poker gamers and saw my art and books. They were just dumb. They saw what they wanted to see. I even had one lady argue with me I couldn't like guys. I would think I would know and I have since I was 6.
 
For the person that left a comment.


Most tend not to see it that way.


At this point I am concerned that everything points to we are having an emotional affair which I still count as cheating and don't like.
 
TickTockMan said:
For the person that left a comment.


Most tend not to see it that way.


At this point I am concerned that everything points to we are having an emotional affair which I still count as cheating and don't like.
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Hrm. What makes you believe it's an emotional affair instead of a deepening of a friendship?
 
She is in a bad relationship and even though it is pretty much over they are still together. They both say they can't stand each other though, but she doesn't want to move on or can't yet.


I say it is an emotional affair because it has all of the signs of one. Also she says she has felling for me to, but she is still involved with her current relationship.
 
TickTockMan said:
She is in a bad relationship and even though it is pretty much over they are still together. They both say they can't stand each other though, but she doesn't want to move on or can't yet.

I say it is an emotional affair because it has all of the signs of one. Also she says she has felling for me to, but she is still involved with her current relationship.
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Ooooooh, it's one of those kinds of things. I think you're doing the right thing there, don't go near that dating situation with a barge-pole till she's salted & burned the last vestiges of her relationship there, that'd be my advice. S'all on her, really, not much you can do there I'm afraid.

It might be beneficial that you said something though, even though making a clean breast of things hasn't really made you feel better. Your honest admission could give her the oomph it takes to finish things off in her own failed relationship... which would leave ya both free. Not a guarantee, much like how emotional honesty rarely gives feelings of emotional peace, buuuuut once in a while there's an occasional silver lining or two. Could take a while, I've noticed people in general aren't very good at relationship matters.
 
You are a person and as such are worthy of love. Just ned to find the right one/s to reciprocate your love. Give and ye shall receive. (one would hope so, but never expect anything)
 
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