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I thought you were straight!

Esquire0399

Esquire0399

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It seems like every single time I go out to a club with my friends, who are all straight, I'm the only one girls ever show interest in. Now, I have no problem dancing with girls but sometimes it just goes too far.

So last night I met a girl named Arcadia who was clearly interested in me, even kissed me on the cheek, but I just kind of blew it off, it was no big deal. She didn't take the hint and the next thing I knew she was reaching up my shirt (ugh), then down my pants (ew). I made her stop and she thought it was funny, then proceeded to (and I'm being literal here) lick my face. What the fuck??? Ultimately I NEEDED to tell her I was gay to protect myself, to which she responded, "Fuck you, I thought you were straight!" Really awkward, uncomfortable situation.

I just find it odd that of all of my friends (5 of them), I'm the ONLY one that ever gets attention from girls, which sucks because I'm the only one that doesn't want it (never get attention from guys :(). Does stuff like this ever happen to anyone else? Any weird stories like mine?
 
I think it's a confidence thing, talking to the really hot girl means nothing to you, but your straight friends would get nervous, so they wouldn't try.
What you think your conveying is passiveness, but to the girls your playing cool and confident so then they're all over you.
 
MoePhoenix7 said:
:( Yeah, that happens alot to me as well. Girls show more attention/seem more attracted to me than gay guys do.

I remember this one girl in my first period geometry class back in high school. She was always making advances towards me, loudly proclaiming how much she wanted my “dick inside of her” (*S*). Whenever I got up from my desk and walk past her, she would either pinch my butt or make a comment on how nice she thought it looked. While it was embarrassing, I didn’t really mind it so much. In fact, I was flattered she had taken in such an interest in me. Plus, she was cute and had a nice little frame. If she caught me on a drunk and horny day, I wouldn’t have minded blowing her mind 69 times. :lol:

Anyway, it happens alot-girls mistaking me as straight and openly flirting with me. I dunno if it’s b/c I came out and started working out, that people assume that I’m straight. B/c when I first started high school (and was deeply in the closet), it seemed like everyone in the world knew that I was gay. But now, I’m coming across more and more people who can’t tell that I’m gay. Which is odd to me b/c I think my sexuality’s been just as obvious as before. But still, I’ll get into a conversation with a guy in class and he’ll start asking me does my “girl” have any hot friends I can hook him up with. :? :lol:
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I know exactly what you mean. For me it's like, at least in my mind, I'm more obviously gay now than I ever was. Not that I'm particularly flamboyant but the little things I do stand out at least to me now, and most straight guys definitely aren't into fashion like I am (I work at Urban Outfitters), and yet girls are all over me. Fuck this would be useful if I were straight. :rolleyes:
 
Esquire0399 said:
She didn't take the hint and the next thing I knew she was reaching up my shirt (ugh), then down my pants (ew). I made her stop and she thought it was funny, then proceeded to (and I'm being literal here) lick my face. What the fuck??? Ultimately I NEEDED to tell her I was gay to protect myself, to which she responded, "Fuck you, I thought you were straight!" Really awkward, uncomfortable situation.
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:lol: I love your (ugh!) (ew!) disclaimers.


I think most attractive gay guys have gone through being hit on by women or being liked by a close female friend enough that it's sort of become a stereotype o.o

Now whether or not these females encountered will be as brazenly inappropriate as the one you're describing..... well that I'm not so sure of.
 
I use to get equally ignored by guys and girls when I go out. But I'm fine with that, I go out to have some beers with my friends :)
 
I decided to take an activity class this semester, which is club dance. When we partner up, there's this girl and at first she would just feel my arms and flirt a lot. Thank God she didn't start licking my face or feeling my down there o.o That would be when I knew she was crazy :P
 
From my perspective I don't like straight clubs or bars... I go with my gay friends to gay clubs, they are tons more fun and less drama.

Honestly girls like you had in your experience just drive me nuts, I am not a fan of slutty girls either. :)
 
I have the same problem to an extent. I always end up going out with all my friends, the only thing is, the majority of my friends are straight males. I don't really come across as gay/flamboyant just you average fun loving man.

When we hit bars and clubs its always quite funny at first when a few girls hit on you, you never really mind the attention at first. But when it gets to the situation like you mentioned it isn't very nice at all.

Its awe full though when you have to tell them your straight and they act offended, kinda kills your mood for the night.

Best thing I have come up with is telling them straight off as soon as they start coming on to you, or if you do have a male/female friend they normally lend a hand and scare em off =]
 
^ got hit on by a drag queen at a foam party ..

we kissed.

but it was all in good fun ;)
 
i got hit on by three drug addicts on a publc bus once....it was not a fun experience, try topping that.
 
I've had a crackhead shove her hand down my pants while I was buying weed from "the man." :)
 
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