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I wake up in the night fondling my straight friend, NOT GOOD!

You need some perspective here.

A handjob doesn't have to ruin a friendship. Only if he's insecure enough to let it to, and really- if he is, why is this person your friend anyway? What sort of friend would let a handjob or a blowjob come between a friendship?

I think the issue here is that you fancy him and romance him in addition to find him attractive in other ways, which can be a hassle.

But he can be a friend that you just give a handjob too! You know? There's no need to feel guilty over that.
 
Also very few men are straight! He might be mostly straight, but he's gay enough to possibly fancy you. So don't get so hung up on labels. He could just view you as a cool guy that gives him handjobs. You don't have to put your heart into a handjob.

Men are just easy pigs, man. It's that simple. They're just whores that would fuck a lamppost if they were horny enough. You sound like an insecure person generally, and I don't mean to judge you or anything but really that's what the issue is here. You don't have to give your heart out with a handjob. Save your huge heart and sensitivity for somebody who is ready to return that affection. In other words, stop making a big deal out of all of this.

And if you can't do that, you can say no. You can control your impulses.
 
G-Lexington said:
Hey, I'm a pretty sound sleeper, but I wake up when somebody's giving me a hand job. (Yes, it's happened.) Which makes me doubt he's simply sleeping through this all. Not only that, but most people are so uncoordinated when they sleep that they end up in strange positions, with their hands bent every which way. But somehow you can invariably find his crotch every night? I think there's only one way that's happening.

Your friend is putting it there.

Next time you wake up with your hand on his crotch, don't freak out. Just whisper "Hey" until he acknowledges your presence. Then ask. "My hand's on your crotch again. Do you mind?" When he says "no" (which he will), ask "Do you want it to do more than just sit there?"

Lex
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We have a winner! I think Lex nailed it. Stop pretending and get on with the real fun.
 
I so live in the wrong town, I'd jump on a chance like this dude (literally!) it really sounds like he's putting it there, I mean for your hand to always wander to his cock and never anywhere else?

Go for it, and if he says no (which again he wont) then tell him to stop putting your hand on his junk its giving you mixed signals.
 
I'll go with the option 3 that Kara mentioned earlier. He is possibly curious about it or just super horny (both are viable options). When I was in high school, I had a friend over and we were watching the Dukes of Hazzard (the unrated version showed a lot of boobies) and my straight friend was hard as a rock (pajamas are quite showy). He knew I was gay and told me that he was horny and asked me to give him head... end of story, he is still straight and we still talk all the time.

Just let him stay over again and if it happens again TALK about it :) you may just have a new buddy to fool around with, you never know... (there is nothing wrong with friends having a "physical" relationship)
 
yeah man, unless he was completely comatose or something, there's no way he wouldn't be aware you were giving him a handjob.

He knows you are gay and still sleeps in the same bed with you, he's probably not going to be horribly surprised if something happens.
 
To be fair, people do things in a semi-conscious state of sleepiness and it isn't exactly clear that they know what they're doing. Just an example... last night my guy was on the receiving end of a wicked blow job on the sofa. Today, he can't remember that we had a conversation. I told him to shift down out of the view of our front window. He was very enthusiastic at the time. And today he couldn't remember if I woke him up to do that or if he was just feeling sleepy. He was in and out like a light.

It is not clear to me that your friend is doing this on purpose. (Which doesn't mean he's unwilling...he seems to be enjoying it, but at 5 pm he might not be thinking "Oh, tonight I'm going to pretend to fall asleep and then try to get his hand on my dick again...."
 
Whoa. That's totally not cool. IT IS NOT OKAY TO FONDLE YOUR FRIENDS WHILE THEY'RE ASLEEP. If a friend of mine did that, even one I was sexually attracted to, that would be a huge breach of trust. Friends don't molest other friends.
 
I think, he's being passive aggressive and "can't" tell you what he wants. If he knows you are gay, just be honest and upfront with him about your feelings.
 
This whole situation is just hitting you right in the face and you can not see it. No str8 man sleeps in a gay mans bed that he knows that the man is gay it just does not happen especially when you are not drinking, Well it seems like he knows alot about you already especially the gay part which is the biggest thing to get out of the way than he is only there for one other reason... fuck him already
 
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