OK, I'm not in the business, but I'll give you my advice anyway. Worth precisely what you're paying for it.
You say you'd like to break into the adult entertainment industry, but you appear to have absolutely no skills that the AEI might want. The only people who can sort of walk in and get a job with no skills would be (possibly) extremely attractive guys who can do some interesting things with their nether regions. But you've alread y said you don't fall into that category either. If you really want to get into this field, you're going to have to gather the skills necessary to do so.
The way you phrase things, I think, belies your true intentions. Some people have come up to me and said, "I wanna do what you do - it looks like fun." These are people I don't think would be good at it. In fact, I'm pretty sure they'd quit before they even built up any of the necessary skills to do it. I feel the same way when I read, "I'm also interested in being an actor,but not just yet,I wana work mabe the camera first,on account I'm not in awesome shape yet!" I think speaks volumes about what you perhaps truly want. It doesn't sound like "This is a field I'm interested in. I'd like to break into the industry." It sounds like, "I ain't too hot yet, but I still want to hang out with the hot guys, and maybe some day have sex with them on camera!" Maybe I'm wrong. But that's how I'm reading it.
If you really want to work in AEI, get a skill they need. Learn to run camera and sound. Teach yourself video editing skills. But know that it's gonna take time, effort, and money. If you're thinking this is a great field where basically you're gonna get paid to have sex with hot guys, you're in FantasyLand. But if you literally are serious about this sort of thing, get started on getting some marketable skills.
Lex
