I want a bf so bad but it seems impossible!

[AreYouON21]

I've only dated guys through the internet and it makes me feel pathetic and lonely at the end of the day D:

and i barely know any gay people around here.... actually no one in my damn highschool (2000 people ... so i guess 1000 guys) are gay ... or i cant identify them... my gaydar doesnt work too well apparently...

Do i have to be more open and search harder?

Does anyone have the same problem? or anyone know what i could do to change this situation?

I'd like to meet more people who'd understand me or be a potential bf =\

 

[kevinsexh8]

how old are u?

well i have had sex with a lot guys but I haven't had a relationship yet, now i'm settle down and i want one but i don't have rush... If i have to be lonely that's my destiny I hope u get someone special bro

 

[racer2438]

One thing is not to be desparate cus that will show through and put guys off. Whats the hurry, take your time and be relaxed and be your self.

Sometimes you may fine Mr. Right just around the corner. But look at how your going about it and see if your putting out the wrong vibes and work on those issues.

 

[hylas]

im just gonna throw a bunch of hip quotes at you...

"19, youre only 19 for gods sake, ohhh you dont need a boyfriend..." the long blondes

"highschool is hell" joss whedon

seriously, id say if youre one of the few guys who have boyfriends in highschool, youre damn lucky. normally, highschool is just one big fucking void of lonelyness and hornyness. dont worry, things will get a lot better in college. that may seem very far away now, but its really not.

 

[thisisinteresting]

Man, it's such a pain when you're in high school, I didn't even bother coming out to anyone or anything 'til it was over. Don't try too hard.

 

[AreYouON21]

im 18 and im actually not THAT desperate loool

a couple of guys want to have sex but i dont want to cuz i think i'll lose all self respect after that lol.

i just want a bf first =\

im gonna be in college in the Falls... hopefully that goes well : )

 

[Shawn1]

Just be yourself, and go with your gut. If you feel that having sex will cause you regret later, then take it slow as you are probably right.

Be as open about who you are and what you like as you can, and others in a similar boat will gravitate to you. Believe me it does work.

Good luck

 

[rareboy]

Good heavens'

18?

It is all ahead of you.

Your boyfriend will turn up in college as long as you are open to the experience.

And yes.

I loves me some Lady GAGA.

 

[LiveForLove]

Just be yourself. That's all you can do really.

 

[AreYouON21]

i'll be more patient >< hahaha

what if im still a virgin when im like 25