I want to kiss him!

[smarto0o]

Hey guys, as the post title says I really want to kiss my boyfriend and I know most of you guys would just say so kiss him but it seems much harder then that!

Basically, when I'm drunk, doesnt really matter when he is, my shyness goes out the window and I end up kissing him, snogging him actually but anyway. So why is it so difficult to do that like at his house or at mine. Even just like a hello or goodbye kiss, or both . I think he wants me to but we're both pretty shy people. How would I go about doing it? Saying something like come here a minute then leaning in for one see his reaction! Any help much appreciated! I just dont want the awkwardness!

 

[Rolyo85]

I can't really give you advicee, until you answer a few things for me:

1. How old are you?
2. Are you out?
3. How long have you been with this boyfriend?
4. Is he your first one?

 

[Seasoned]

I don't believe the awkwardness will go away until it becomes natural. The way to make it natural is to do it often.
That's the bind. Apparently, there's too much going on in your head. Is it timidness or internalized homophobia? What's the feeling that alcohol takes away?

I treat it as part of my hello and good-bye and also any time I want to feel my husband's lips on mine.

 

[smarto0o]

Em, I'm 20, I'm out to everyone but my family :/ I've been with him about two weeks but I dont think that matters as I've kissed him before. He is my first proper one yes! I think the alchohol takes away the awkwardness, as in not give a shit about my thoughts!

 

[ben9651]

two weeks and he`s already your bf ?!

 

[Ganoderma]

hi Smarto0o,

How about starting touching him, stroking him, and start doing this kind of 'light' ways of touching the body of your boyfriend?

And start with touching stroking his fingers / his hands / his knees etc. How easy is that for you? Or stroking his hair / his face? Or his chest? Eg, when both of you sit on a couch?

And how about kissing his fingers? Or the backside of his hands? Or his neck?

So maybe you might start to get used to have close 'body-contact' with your boyfriend?

And how about him? Does he like to kiss you, and / or does he like to stroke you?


Anyway, great to hear you are open to almost anyone around you, and also great to hear you have found a nice boyfriend.

Good luck, and feel free to react.

Take care.

 

[smarto0o]

two weeks and he`s already your bf ?!

When I said two weeks I meant thats how long the relationships been?

Ganoderma: Maybe I do need to get closer to him before, and just appreciate the kisses when we go out!