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I Want to PUNCH OUT my boyfriend's best friend (who's also gay)

innocentbychoice said:
It seems to me like you're overreacting. The guy made a mistake but it's nothing so big for you to react like you wanna kill him. Get some perspective, breath, and go do something fun and distracting that gets your mind off this, probably too late to tell you this as you posted that yesterday but the advice could help next time you feel like your anger is getting out of control.
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It seems that way because I didn't articulate how this friend is in real life. He's been self-centered for a while, but I swept it under the rug because it didn't affect me until recently. And, I thought, him being my BF's friend, he'd have enough respect for me to honor his end of the deal by just showing up when he said he would. He didn't and didn't even want to apologize.

Did I tell you that he's terrified of people with HIV/AIDS? And has boasted in my presence about being with 300 men since he was 18?
 
innocentbychoice said:
It seems to me like you're overreacting. The guy made a mistake but it's nothing so big for you to react like you wanna kill him. Get some perspective, breath, and go do something fun and distracting that gets your mind off this, probably too late to tell you this as you posted that yesterday but the advice could help next time you feel like your anger is getting out of control.
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Seconded.
 
Lostlover said:
He's dropped so many gems when people have alluded to his chances of catching STDs while being an escort. He's said stuff like, "I get tested routinely." Well, what good is testing after the fact?

He escorts on the weekend in SF and Las Vegas for men that will fly him out there just for a few days.

He also calls himself a prostitute and laments about eventually needing counseling to get over this side job of his.

Why doesn't he just stop NOW and get a normal job?
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That is a high class escort. Nothing wrong with that. :D
 
You have a tendency to easily obsess over things that distress you as in the case of this friend and his self-centered personality of freely giving himself to other men for money. For someone who claims to have no interest in this person, you certainly do know a lot of details about his private life. Withdraw yourself from having any involvement with your bf's friend. Definitely do him no future favors. I would say you have the right to tell your boyfriend that you're fine with the two of them being friends, but that you ask that this person is not invited to any activities or places that you two do as a couple.
 
Mini-update: this friend has come around full circle and is actually pleasant to be around.

I don't know if he matured, but he's mellowed out to the point where you don't mind talking to him about things beyond small talk. He apologized, on his own liberty, for being a douche blaming it on him trying to quit smoking.

He told me it's taking a lot for inner strength to apologize to me and other people he had wronged. I'm thinking it takes even more courage to suck an 80-year-old's cock like he does to pay for tuition.

Whatever. I don't have to like him. He didn't have to apologize, but he did and I'll accept it.
 
Lostlover said:
Mini-update: this friend has come around full circle and is actually pleasant to be around.

I don't know if he matured, but he's mellowed out to the point where you don't mind talking to him about things beyond small talk. He apologized, on his own liberty, for being a douche blaming it on him trying to quit smoking.

He told me it's taking a lot for inner strength to apologize to me and other people he had wronged. I'm thinking it takes even more courage to suck an 80-year-old's cock like he does to pay for tuition.

Whatever. I don't have to like him. He didn't have to apologize, but he did and I'll accept it.
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Why the hell do an 80 yo guy want his cock sucked? That is just cruel by the 80 yo guy.
 
Telstra said:
Why the hell do an 80 yo guy want his cock sucked? That is just cruel by the 80 yo guy.
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Hey, Twenty bucks is twenty bucks.

And if some guy can still get an erection at 80.....more power to him.
 
I used vegetable oil and gave hand jobs if the cocks are hard. :lol:
 
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