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I was wrong a Guy I went to a movie with turns out to be straight.

He's not gay....but he's probably not entirely straight either. He's curious about you. You're probably laid-back and non threatening, like stereotypically a lot of gay guys are. That is very relaxing for other men, they like that.

A lot of people wanted to hang out with me in high school and stuff but I just wanted to be left alone. lol. Other people just drained me even though I liked people from a distance though. I felt a little guilty cause I knew a lot of guys were just trying to be nice. Even if the relationship is going well, I still prefer to just be by myself.

So what might happen is that you get to know each other and he gets closer and more comfortable with his 'gay self' and you might share special moments. Not necessarily as boyfriends or partners but as close friends with benefits. It's really a beautiful thing if you let it happen naturally. It's the boyhood/brotherhood spirit. (*8*)

This power is very strong, the greeks went to great lengths about it and it's in the bible. When David said to Johnathon that the love he felt passed the love of women, even if he didn't mean sexual- it was still special and 'innately romantic' and probably couldn't help but have erotic undertones as well. (Fuck they disrobed in front of each other so of course it was sexual as well) It's only natural. Men need other men. =p

a lot of guys conflicted about their sexuality will say things like 'Fuck man when I'm with guys it's just easier and women are so fucking difficult, but I feel that because girls are harder the challenge is worth it.' I feel sorry for these people. honey, things shouldn't be so hard. Who you like romantically needs to be a natural, easy thing. If you're experiencing natural chemistry with men and not women then something is up with that... i guess thats true for guys who hold too much on a 'gay' identity as well but usually the problem is the other way around.
 
No I think he is straight because he said so. I can become his friend and definitely look to meet men that are openly gay.

I don't want to go through the experience of dealing with a closet case because my ex boyfriend was a closet case.

I just got to believe this man is straight because he told me so in an e-mail. I mean why would someone

lie about their sexuality? It doesn't make any sense. So since he said he is straight then he is.

I asked him directly about his sexuality and he said he has no problem with me being gay.

He said in an e-mail "I am mesmerized by the ladies". He made that clear. I do agree with your other point, maybe he is just a nice guy and we met at movie group so he wants to become friends. I can handle that.

It is time for me to open myself to new experiences. I never had a straight male friend before. Maybe I can learn something from this experience.
 
MorrisseyX said:
I just got to believe this man is straight because he told me so in an e-mail. I mean why would someone lie about their sexuality? It doesn't make any sense. So since he said he is straight then he is.
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You do realize the irony of that statement being posted on the Coming Out forum.

Right?


That's the whole point of this forum: lying. Or, one hopes, moving away from the lying.
 
Being friends with straight guys is easy. Most of my friends are straight men. I have a few gay friends that I get along with just as well.

I do agree though that this guy's behaviour is fishy. Not even my best friend would ever INSIST on paying for my stuff and I've known him 14 years. He would offer to pay, but never insist if I said no, I have money.
 
He only bought me an orange juice and a donut though. It wasn't anything expensive.
 
A couple of things, first I think he probably did have a degree of sexual interest but then pulled back, this can happen and we have all done it. The other thing that no one has mentioned is his cultural background. In India a lot of relationships (marriage/sex) are sorted out for you. If you become a close long term friend you my find that he has got a "bride in waiting" back in India. I would foster the friendship and you may have an enlightening cross cultural experience, good luck.
 
Seriously you guys are reading way too much into this.
He's straight, he said so. End of.
I've known tons of people who have bought me a drink or two before, many completely heterosexual, no secret meanings attached.
Just be grateful you have a decent friend, and that's all.
 
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