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I went back to my friends for drinks after being out and he did this?

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he kept showing me his ass and getting one testicle out of his pants. then later on he started grinding on me and dry humping me from behind. i played along and grinded back for a laugh. next time he got his bum out i slapped him. was just a laugh at this point. he has often asked me for a blowjob but i laugh it off. then later he started talking about penises again and fully got the whole lot out and rubbed it against my hand trying to get me hold it and making sexual groans. he was semi erect. i laughed him off again and finished my drink and went home. what do you make of his behaviour?
 
pandh200 said:
he kept showing me his ass and getting one testicle out of his pants. then later on he started grinding on me and dry humping me from behind. i played along and grinded back for a laugh. next time he got his bum out i slapped him. was just a laugh at this point. he has often asked me for a blowjob but i laugh it off. then later he started talking about penises again and fully got the whole lot out and rubbed it against my hand trying to get me hold it and making sexual groans. he was semi erect. i laughed him off again and finished my drink and went home. what do you make of his behaviour?
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Is he gay? Does ne know you are gay? Are you avoiding coming out to him? Obviously he thinks you are gay and trying to prove it, but he also seems willing to play.
 
Neither of us have ever told each other we are gay or bi. I guess I was worried if I reciprocated he'd be like "dude what are you doing"
 
He was rubbing his semi-erect penis on your hand, and YOU were worried about HIS reaction if you reciprocated!?

I get it that you weren't sure if this was just straight guy drunk antics and all, but geez, the way you described it, it seemed pretty obvious that he wanted to fool around. He was being immature in his way of making advances on you, although he did straight out ask for a blow job....which is more direct with you than you are with him since you're not out.

Do you want to fool around with him? If so, how about the next opportunity you have alone with him, you bring up that night and his antics, that you were confused, and ask him if he's into guys.
 
pandh200 said:
he kept showing me his ass and getting one testicle out of his pants. then later on he started grinding on me and dry humping me from behind. i played along and grinded back for a laugh. next time he got his bum out i slapped him. was just a laugh at this point. he has often asked me for a blowjob but i laugh it off. then later he started talking about penises again and fully got the whole lot out and rubbed it against my hand trying to get me hold it and making sexual groans. he was semi erect. i laughed him off again and finished my drink and went home. what do you make of his behaviour?
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Recap:
  1. Your friend invited you up to drink alcohol.
  2. Your friend dry humped you.
  3. Your friend pulled out his dick and rubbed it on you.
  4. Your friend asked for a blowjob.

If you were a girl instead of a guy, it would be clearer that his behavior borders on sexual assault... assuming that the two of you were just friends and the advances were unwanted.

Other than laughing it off, did you ever say, "Enough"?
 
No I liked it. I guess I was worried of his reaction if I played back
 
pandh200 said:
No I liked it. I guess I was worried of his reaction if I played back
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Well, if you liked it, then perhaps you should make it clear to him that you're interested and that there's better ways to come on to you that don't require either of you getting drunk and pulling out your willies?

If he's brave enough to dry hump you but not man enough to kiss you on the mouth, then you're not playing on a two-way street, are you?
 
True. I think next time he does anything when we're sober I'm just gonna move in and hope for the best
 
dont think u got anything to worry about, but how does he act after hes sobbered up? does he bring it up at all? mybe bring it up while sobber? see if he really was keen :)
 
yeah he brought it up the day after and then we got interrupted by someone so its not been mentioned again, I really lust for him its driving me insane!
 
We were alone and had a few drinks Thursday night. Did a lot of chatting about stuff. Nothing really sexual just life in general. At one point we were talking about the gym etc.im quite stocky, he's very toned. We ended up comparing legs. Pulled our pants down just boxer shorts on. He felt my thighs and me his, then he asked me to turn around so he could see my butt. Then we went for a cigarette and it was really late and we were both working so he went home. He text me the day after saying he enjoyed it and we should have a drink again sometime. Something building perhaps? Or are we too far over the friend line? Interesting why he wanted to see legs tho? Confused
 
dude he didn't just want to see your legs....he asked to see your butt. I think he's more interested in something than meets the eye. he may just be curious but I'd let him take the lead. maybe help push him along a little but you don't want to push too hard and scare him. keep hanging out and drop some hints. if he's interested he'll let you know.

Steven
 
hi pandh200,

OK, so he felt your tight and you felt his tight and he texted you the next day that he enjoyed your company and that he would like to meet you again. I am sure your friend is very interested in you and I agree with #12 to keep hanging out with him. I don't exclude that your friend is already aware that you are bi/gay and I also agree with #12 that you should drop some hints the next time you meet. Just tell him that he is a nice guy, or start stroking his tight, or tell him that he has nice eyes (or whatever), etc. Any motives why you have not yet told him that you are gay/bi? So I am sure your friend is interested in you.
 
pandh200 said:
he kept showing me his ass and getting one testicle out of his pants. then later on he started grinding on me and dry humping me from behind. i played along and grinded back for a laugh. next time he got his bum out i slapped him. was just a laugh at this point. he has often asked me for a blowjob but i laugh it off. then later he started talking about penises again and fully got the whole lot out and rubbed it against my hand trying to get me hold it and making sexual groans. he was semi erect. i laughed him off again and finished my drink and went home. what do you make of his behaviour?
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What do I "make of his behavior"? Really? I mean how much more does this poor guy have to shout at you, "LETS HAVE SEX.....NOW!!!!!!"? You say you don't want to "reveal" yourself, the entire time this poor guy is doing everything he can to be a seductress into bed. Call him up, ask him to go for drinks, just the two of you, this week, and see where things go.
 
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What do I "make of his behavior"? Really? I mean how much more does this poor guy have to shout at you, "LETS HAVE SEX.....NOW!!!!!!"? You say you don't want to "reveal" yourself, the entire time this poor guy is doing everything he can to be a seductress into bed. Call him up, ask him to go for drinks, just the two of you, this week, and see where things go.
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Seriously, that's chance #2 you have blown. Wake up @pandh200! Next time, just go for it!
 
pandh200! :wave:

I don't know how much more Obvious your friend can be! Stop overthinking, and looking a "Gift Horse" in the mouth! #-o

Damn, Bud! The Dude want's to PLAY! No doubts about it! \:/

Chill out, Relax, Let GO!, and give Him his wish! (!) (!w!) (group)
 
True i should. We spoke today. had a laugh about the night, no awkwardness or nothing. Agreed we should definitely do it again so thats good. He said he really enjoyed the night and couldn't believe how fast it went. and we agreed to meet when we are both not working the day after :-)
 
but he's always clarifying how anything nice he does is not gay and how he doesn't agree with homosexuality etc
 
pandh200 said:
but he's always clarifying how anything nice he does is not gay and how he doesn't agree with homosexuality etc
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Thankfully, no one needs his "agreement".

These guys who say one thing but act in another way are always a mystery. But given his past behavior, he either needs to put up or shut up. It's never a good thing to play the "he/she is asking for it" card but at the same time, when it's this blatantly physical, either he's totally clueless or he's playing a dangerous game if he doesn't plan on going through with it.
 
pandh200 said:
but he's always clarifying how anything nice he does is not gay and how he doesn't agree with homosexuality etc
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and there are gay porn stars who say they aren't gay like whatever, his actions speak louder than words. but don't ever ask him if he is gay, just go with the flow because at some point he will stop and resent you because you are acting dumb or rejecting him and you will have missed your chance.
be playful.
 
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