if a guy you THOUGHT was str8...

[jude swings]

...turned out to be gay or bi, would you still be into him?

just asking because i get the feeling that these threads about str8 guys seem to imply that if the dude was actually gay or bi that the attraction wouldn't be there.

 

[Timber_8]

...turned out to be gay or bi, would you still be into him?

just asking because i get the feeling that these threads about str8 guys seem to imply that if the dude was actually gay or bi that the attraction wouldn't be there.

I find people attractive individually male or female regardless of there orientation. Just because I find someone attractive doesn't mean my bed is available to them. The only added attraction to other alternative lifestyle people is we are cut from the same piece of cloth.

 

[Master Bates]

Would I still be in to them? Oh yeah, big time. It's happened to me a few times. Most notably, a fuck buddy that I've had for over 15 years. I worked a part-time job where my dad worked. Our boss was this manly stud who I thought was straight as a nail. I had the hots for him bad, but figured I didn't stand a chance. That is until one day when our conversation turned to sex and I said we'd better stop because I was getting hard. He reached down and copped a feel for himself- we've been fuck buddies since and I still have the hots for him.

 

[AlmondMilk]

Well, I honestly wouldn't care. I always have the hots for my boyfriend, haha. So even though I always see hot guys where ever I go, I see them as off limits sexually. I wouldn't mind befriending hot guys though.

 

[blackbeltninja]

Absolutely not. They'd go from unattainable to available in my head immediately!

-d-

 

[itsmeagain]

Would I still be in to them? Oh yeah, big time. It's happened to me a few times. Most notably, a fuck buddy that I've had for over 15 years. I worked a part-time job where my dad worked. Our boss was this manly stud who I thought was straight as a nail. I had the hots for him bad, but figured I didn't stand a chance. That is until one day when our conversation turned to sex and I said we'd better stop because I was getting hard. He reached down and copped a feel for himself- we've been fuck buddies since and I still have the hots for him.

squirt! Details? Please!!

 

[tenderloin]

if a str8 guy i was interested in turned out to be into guys too i would be happy. i think, for me personally at least, that the trait of str8 guys i am attracted to is their natural personality because i don't like gay guys who don't let you forget they are gay and you can tell as soon as you meet them. so if i mistakenly labeled them str8 then thats even better.
before i get flamed for saying that, in reality a lot of my crushes were cute guys i thought (at least subliminally) would be open to gay sex/relationships. the ones i was strongly attracted to were the ones i suspected of being gay. celebrities are different, but in real life i don't dwell on someone i don't feel there's even a chance for.

 

[laegolass]

So far, it only had happened once for me. It was in high school where I had a crush on my best friend but i shrug it off cos I thought he's straight. About 5 years later, we found out about each other but I'm already over him. Hehe.

 

[CaptainJohn]

If a straight guy I was into turned out to be gay, I would be even more into him!