If a romantic partner asked you to change something would you?

[TickTockMan]

Like your haircut, or if you have a beard or not. If you would, up to what would you listen to them?



For me I am really submissive. I would have no problem keeping my face shaved if that is what they were to prefer. Really there is not much I wouldn’t change if asked, except the type and color of clothes I like to wear.

 

[TickTockMan]

That depends on what they're asking me to change. If it's something superficial, like my hair or (currently non-existant) beard, then sure, why not. If they're asking me to change an aspect of my personality, I'll try my hardest to be as good for them as I can be, but you can only do so much.

If they're asking me to stop smoking, they're out the door.

What if they asked you to grow a beard?

 

[Ryuukie]

I would change my hair or shave a beard or mustache -- especially if the hair on my face scratches him when we kiss.

 

[Kester]

Depends on what they asked me to change.

But probably not. If they really liked me then they take me for who I am, not who they want me to be.

 

[justsimon]

If it was something very important to the relationship and/or other person and I didn't feel that I was compromising my ethics, beliefs or negatively affect me, then I'd consider it.

As far as superficial things go, I haven't shaved my head since I started dating my gf because she doesn't like it that way, but I also haven't really wanted to. If I did shave it, she'd sigh at me, but not care all that much... and probably like it eventually.

 

[thisisinteresting]

Anything reasonable, sure. I can't even get a suggestion out of my guy. Should I cut my hair or keep it longer? Kinda wanna cut it but I'm not sure - "I 'unno, it's your hair." >_<

 

[Curiosities]

Hahahaha, don't take my advice because I'm stupid when it comes to this stuff, but I so would if my partner is to die for!!

And I'm all about looks (call me shallow) so if I do find a partner, he WOULD be to die for XDD

 

[tonyboy]

Like your haircut, or if you have a beard or not. If you would, up to what would you listen to them?



For me I am really submissive. I would have no problem keeping my face shaved if that is what they were to prefer. Really there is not much I wouldn’t change if asked, except the type and color of clothes I like to wear.

A romantic partner.. well no I would not... but a mate, like in ltr, well I would consider it.. anything that he wanted that I could do I would... and I'd expect the same from him.
But I'd not be with anyone in the first place if he was not the sort I'd like to be with.. I mean why change the person you fell for?

 

[hungrybrownbear]

Yes, unless it was like go circumscise yourself...

 

[jaycee style]

nope, noway, the package is as it comes and there will be no modifications

 

[Ekim23]

well Depends on what like most here.

But I wouldnt change to someting I dont like for SURE

 

[irydion]

I would, as long as it wouldn't be a change that's permanent, or making me feel bad.
I would change my haircut, unless his chosen one was reaaally bad, but can not imagine any hairstyle to be that bad.
I wouldn't get a tattoo... at least not a big one, and none on my face.
I would work-out if my bf asked me to, because I'd be happy with better body anyway. But I wouldn't turn myself into a 500 kg person if he was into really obese persons.
etc

 

[sb]

If I thought what they wanted me to change would be an improvement, I wouldn't have a problem doing it. As long as they did the same. It would also depend on what they wanted me to change, how I felt about it, how strongly I felt about them yadda yadda....

 

[G-Lexington]

I guess we all have lines. I'd have absolutely no problem changing my haircut to please my partner. Not because I'm submissive, but because my haircut really means zero to me. When I go to get my haircut, I tell the person "do whatever you think might look good". And I'm almost always satisfied with the result.

My clothes? Again, I don't care much. I usually look to Pubert to pick out something "appropriate" if we're going out somewhere where something above "T-shirt'n'jeans" are needed. So if he says "change", I do.

Would I grow a beard? That's a lot less likely. I have really thick hair, and it itches like crazy, so I'd argue against that.

Lex

 

[SonOfSlobone]

Facial hair, haircut, sure. After all, he's the one who has to look at it.

 

[Swellegant]

It would make me very uncomfortable and defensive if someone asked me to change something about myself, even something as pointless as my hair or shirt... I mean, if he told me "I'm not wild about that color green, why not try this blue one instead?" I would go for it; but if it was "I wish you'g grow a beard," I would want to know why, what the beard was meant to represent or hide.

And if I detected some kind of criticism in the request, the walls would go up with a row of archers along the the top. Which is one of the reasons I've been single for the last twenty years, I can see criticism in almost anything and will go immediately on the defensive.

 

[bounder]

Depends on the request. I don't pretend that I'm perfect at any moment, so I'm open to suggestion. But the final decision is mine.

 

[USEDCAR]

It depends on what it is hair cut is fine or losing weight he would have to help out also.

But getting rid of my game show collection he would be out the door

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>Which is one of the reasons I've been single for the last twenty years, I can see criticism in almost anything and will go immediately on the defensive.

And what is THAT supposed to mean, exactly?!

Lex

 

[pocono]

When I first met my boy friend we went on a few romantic dates (no sex). Then he invited me to his house for an overnight. When he was giving me the directions he said "and don't shave anything!" So I haven't since. Frankly my pubic hair was getting a little long and I trimmed the other day, but because he asked (and I really dislike manscaping)...I followed his direction!