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If he's bisexual... should I...

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If I have a boyfriend, and he's bisexual. Should I tell him to get married with a girl and have a small family with children, and we should break up? Because it'll be very hard for him to come out...
 
bisexual doesn't mean you want to get married and have kids
 
Because he really love children, may be that's the way for him to have his own children. He mentioned about it.
But seriously this is not my problem at all at the moment. I just want us to discuss about it and give your opinion.
 
It is wise not to tell any one, how they should live their life.

I note that you are 20 years of age. I will assume that your boyfriend is a similar age.

It is far too early and inappropriate for you to attempt to direct your boyfriend into a married/parental role.

If your relationship with your boyfriend is working well, then let it continue to flourish and develop.

Do not let society's norms impose their requirements on your boyfriend (or, even you) so as to appear fit into the herd mentality.

Know who you are, and become that person.

Let your boy friend work out his own life, and you take care of your life.
 
What will you tell your bf if he happens to be GAY and wants children??
 
T_T god, I hope when I turn 20 I don't get as stupid as some of the rest of the 20year olds on here.
 
It has been suggested that this thread will get more reasoned and relevant responses in the Coming Out, Relationships & Bisex Forum - I tend to agree - so will move it. :)
 
Coffee said:
If I have a boyfriend, and he's bisexual. Should I tell him to get married with a girl and have a small family with children, and we should break up? Because it'll be very hard for him to come out...
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There's an old saying, "A door is something that a dog always wants to be on the other side of".

That's the dilemma with a lot of bisexuals. When they're with a boyfriend, they wonder whether they should be married to a woman so that they can have children. When they're married to a woman, they want dick.

If he's truly bisexual, then getting married and having chlidren is not going to solve anything. He'll always have questions about, "what if...?".

Sexuality isn't something set in stone. There are very few 50-50 bisexuals and the attractions to men/women vary back and forth over time. Or while he may be more bisexual today but as he gets older, he may move toward a more settled heterosexual or homosexual preference.

Thankfully, there are more options these days. He can marry a man. He can have children. He can father children with a surrogate if that's important to him.

What should you do? Live for today. Fuck like bunnies. Let him worry about his own future.
 
bisexual or not,you should give your bf more credit,he's an adult ,so don't try to make decisions for him..and especially decisions like that...of course if you're sure he is smart enough to know what he wants...if it concerns you talk to him.
 
Coffee said:
Can anyone answer this question?
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I don't think there is anything to answer. Someone being gay and wanting children is not a question; it's someone living their life in the way they see fit.
 
Bisexual guys are only good for sex, Iv'e been burned one too many times by bisexuals cheating on me with girls.
 
Luka said:
Bisexual guys are only good for sex, Iv'e been burned one too many times by bisexuals cheating on me with girls.
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that's bullshit.just because you had the "bad luck" (and by "bad luck"i mean that if it has happened more than once maybe it's you that keep looking on the wrong places) to be involved with people who doesn't know what they want it means everybody's the same,It's like saying that gay people can't be faithful.it's not a question of sexuality,it's a question of morals.
 
homemadehuman said:
that's bullshit.just because you had the "bad luck" (and by "bad luck"i mean that if it has happened more than once maybe it's you that keep looking on the wrong places) to be involved with people who doesn't know what they want it means everybody's the same,It's like saying that gay people can't be faithful.it's not a question of sexuality,it's a question of morals.
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Hmm well persoanlly I wouldnt waste my time on a Bi guy, and most gay peopel cant be faithful.
 
Luka said:
Hmm well persoanlly I wouldnt waste my time on a Bi guy, and most gay peopel cant be faithful.
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guys don't cheat cuz they're gay..they cheat cuz they are men,but
hey,everybody's entitled to their opinion,doesn't mean your reality is the same for the rest of us tho.
 
homemadehuman said:
guys don't cheat cuz they're gay..they cheat cuz they are men,but
hey,everybody's entitled to their opinion,doesn't mean your reality is the same for the rest of us tho.
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Its not my reality its just general FACTS
 
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