Cool. Hmm. So perhaps abolish the tax perk of married filing jointly as it violates seperation of church and state and only is available to people who can get married? Are u suggesting the gov't shudn't favor one association over another under freedom of association?
I'm not suggesting anything; I'm flat declaring it.
If it's a right, the government cannot play favorites. Now, either two (or more) people have a right to be bonded together, or they don't. If they do, then the government has no moral choice other than to honor all those bondings, and to do so equally. If they don't, then the government can't bestow benefits and/or privileges on any people who do that.
It's not just separation of church and state; that's only one peak of this iceberg, one which arises because all those people out there "defending marriage" are waving one particular holy book and claiming, "God said so!" as their justification. For any judge with an IQ higher than the number of electoral votes in California, that mere fact should be enough to order all laws in his jurisdiction invalid and void if they so much as mention the word "marriage", and to demand that the council, legislature, or Congress get its ass in gear and write the law to be religiously and preferencely neutral -- and if he's literate, to toss R. Heinlein's
The Moon is a Harsh Mistress at them and require that every form of "marriage" in it be covered by the new law (monogamy, polygamy [either direction], group, line, clan, contract...).
If this is a free country, then three little old ladies living together who can persuade the young mailman to marry all three of them should be able to do so -- and get the same government benefits as the gay twins next door who got united down at the Universalist Society, and the Muslim on the corner with three wives, and for that matter the Roman Catholic priest who is "married" to the Church -- or all eight college kids on staff as lifeguards at the civic pool should be able to enter into a "domestic commitment" and get the same benefits as not only the three old ladies and the others, but as their happily married, heterosexual bosses who have been together since high school swim team. That's called "freedom of association", and it is actually a bigger peak on this iceberg.
Whether the relationships get tax perks or not is a question for legislators -- but if this is a free country, then their job is to make those tax perks available, and equitable, to all relationships and all those in relationships that have been declared to the government as firm and binding (or whatever language one might want to use).