The reason is simple. Because men are off-the-charts hot.
For me, It’s all about the bond - as men. Nothing beats the bond two men can have; physically, emotionally, or spiritually. It’s something I hold very close to my soul in terms of need, and desire. I know first hand that sex between two men is more incredible than I thought it would be. As I tell the Bi-curious whom have asked me in the past what it is like, I tell them “It’s everything you think it will be, and more”. I love sex with men. And… I’m good at it. I love the aggression, the limitless passion, the adrenaline, the sweat, and the physical force that two men can bring to each other. I love the strength, the power, the hardness, the masculine scent, and the sound of a man when he’s cumming. The aggression comes from the massive jolts of adrenaline that shoot through me like rockets when that 'fuck’ feeling has taken over. When I’m fucking a guy, and he reaches that place of primal orgasmic pleasure from deep within him, that is when I feel so mighty and powerful… knowing I did that. Yet there is mutual caring and bonding at the same time. It’s not about dominance, or 'winning’. It’s about mutually pleasing and displaying to each other that power can equally exist with tenderness. It’s a feeling that cannot be matched through heterosexual sex. I mean let’s face it. The male body is fucking incredible.
There is also a deep seeded need in me to earn the acceptance and affirmation from another man. Especially one whom I find sexy, strong, and manly. A strong masculine and well endowed man has lived a life of feeling strong, masculine, and knowing what it is like to be the owner of a big dick. I want that man to bring me his masculinity, his testosterone, his sweat, his passion, his attraction to me, and his lust to share in. If that man sees me as desirable, approves of my cock, and is sexually satisfied by me... damn. Nothing else can make me feel more like a real man, than that.
And then there is the cum. The majority of women do not have the ability to have orgasmic ejaculate shoot from their pussies. Yes, some can. But most cannot. Let me tell you... One of the greatest fucking feelings on the planet is to feel the hot thick thudding of a man's cum raining down on my body. Anywhere. On my chest, my stomach, my cock... but mostly on my open mouthed face and bald head. omg... I luxuriate in it! Soak me down, and slather it into my skin. Let some get in my mouth so we can share it in a wild hot and deep kiss, and let the rest absorb into me like nature's lotion. I'll wear it on my skin proudly, going on about my day knowing that studly cum is still on me. True story: I once stopped by this sexy dude's house on my way to a horse shoe tournament at a straight buddy's home. The stud shot his load all over me, and I left it there to dry on my chest and scalp. Then I went to the party, and on sunny hot day in July in a skimpy tank top - hugged all my buddies when I arrived knowing my cum drenched chest was in mashed contact with theirs as we greeted each other. I even had one of my buds kiss my scalp when I got a 3 point ringer to win the round. That got me so fucking rocked up I almost had to excuse myself to hide my hard on. My shorts would have shown the outline of my hardening cock in an instant.
Anyway, in summary; the camaraderie, the bonding, the approval from someone who has the same body structure that I have, the unmatched power, and the solid strength, knowing I don't have to take it easy when I'm at my most heightened level of passion, and they can use that same level of strength and power on me. That is why I love sex with men.