If you were to hook up with someone....

[Newbie_69]

....through the internet, to what extent would you give your address so they can pick u up or go to your house to do it?

 

[G-Lexington]

"To what extent"? Meaning what? Give him the street address but not the zip code? Either I'd give it to him, or I wouldn't.

I'd definitely go the safe route. Meet for coffee somewhere not too near my home, and if I decided to hook up after that, I'd set it up for later, and give my address then.

Lex

 

[Rex]

If I phone with them and we click and I feel this person is cool, I would give them my address or they give me theres. It's never been an issue. Never had any problems. If you feel someone is creepy or a psycho, don't do it.

Always phone with them. Get a good feel of how this person is. If there is any hint of them being a psycho or they're too pushy, cut that person off.

 

[MidnightPrism]

I don't want some Craigslist killer freak showing up at my door.

That guy was kinda cute though so if we had met for coffee I probably would have been doomed.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

....through the internet, to what extent would you give your address so they can pick u up or go to your house to do it?

First talk a little, to make sure they're really interested. If they don't want to talk to you/don't seem capable of serious conversation, call the date off.

Then, you'll want to exchange phone numbers. Check if the phone works by calling their number. Take the phone with you when you go dating.(Probably not a problem since most people carry a mobile phone).

Next, either give them your adress (if the date is in your house, or if they want to pick you up) or get theirs. Sometimes they'll arrange a meeting in an easy to find street near their house and take you to their house from there.

The phone is good, because you can ask for directions if you are meeting them, or you can call them if they're late coming to your house.

I have an interfriend who gives the dates who come visit him an hour to arrive before he starts doing something else (unless they call him in the mean time).
That way, he doesn't waste too much time on hooker uppers who flake out.

Don't date someone who's too far away.

 

[Rex]

It's not a date. It's just sex.

 

[DarkNeko]

Meet somewhere mutual, public and open first. Figure out if he's legit, and not scary before you go to his house or you go to his.

^Exactly. I watch too much Law & Order and CSI. I would never let someone I met over teh internets come to my house until I had met them in a safe public area and gotten an idea of what the person was like. If they seemed normal and well-adjusted, then I MIGHT invite them back.

 

[dj415]

....through the internet, to what extent would you give your address so they can pick u up or go to your house to do it?

I would not.

I don't care how fucking horney I might be, I would always insist on meeting in a neutral place.

But that's just me. Good luck to you.

 

[Newbie_69]

If I phone with them and we click and I feel this person is cool, I would give them my address or they give me theres. It's never been an issue. Never had any problems. If you feel someone is creepy or a psycho, don't do it.

Always phone with them. Get a good feel of how this person is. If there is any hint of them being a psycho or they're too pushy, cut that person off.

My situation is exactly like how you described. I mean he's the cool guy. Not some pushy psycho kind. Lets say he would like to take me to his home to spend the nite or an adventourous(kinky) weekend together, would that be too much for a first meeting even though I've been talking to him for like 2-3 weeks? We learned alot about each other through phone. we exchanged pics and he looks exactly like how his profile described him. he's in his early 40s. But then again, I'm a slut, who cares. So, what would you naturally do in this type of situation. Don't get me wrong, he's a very sweet person and I really like to do him or even more.

 

[dj415]

My situation is exactly like how you described. I mean he's the cool guy. Not some pushy psycho kind. Lets say he would like to take me to his home to spend the nite or an adventourous(kinky) weekend together, would that be too much for a first meeting even though I've been talking to him for like 2-3 weeks? We learned alot about each other through phone. we exchanged pics and he looks exactly like how his profile described him. he's in his early 40s. But then again, I'm a slut, who cares. So, what would you naturally do in this type of situation. Don't get me wrong, he's a very sweet person and I really like to do him or even more.

Um, can you say contradiction?

Never, ever, believe anything anyone says to you online! (Does this make me look/sound bitter?) Or, more accurately, should you listen to me?

How the fuck do you know what he looks like? Phone pics? Please! Meet the bitch in public.

If you are such a slut and don't care; why the fuck are you posting here? Go for it. Be the slut that you are!

 

[Newbie_69]

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[Lukeee]

If he wants to kill you it doesn't matter if you meet in public, he can wait.

If what you are worried about is him coming back (because he knows your address) you could always go to a hotel.

 

[Newbie_69]

First talk a little, to make sure they're really interested. If they don't want to talk to you/don't seem capable of serious conversation, call the date off.

Then, you'll want to exchange phone numbers. Check if the phone works by calling their number. Take the phone with you when you go dating.(Probably not a problem since most people carry a mobile phone).

Next, either give them your adress (if the date is in your house, or if they want to pick you up) or get theirs. Sometimes they'll arrange a meeting in an easy to find street near their house and take you to their house from there.

The phone is good, because you can ask for directions if you are meeting them, or you can call them if they're late coming to your house.

I have an interfriend who gives the dates who come visit him an hour to arrive before he starts doing something else (unless they call him in the mean time).
That way, he doesn't waste too much time on hooker uppers who flake out.

Don't date someone who's too far away.

Is 1 hour drive too far? That's where he's from. But again, that's not really the main issue here. Its just that you brought it up. might as well.

 

[dj415]

Come out, come out, where ever you are!

What a closet case!

Drive the fucking hour.

Get your fucking rocks off.

It will be meaningless.

 

[Newbie_69]

There's more?

I'm intrigued.

yes, he seems like a sweet honest sounthern folk. he talks to me like he's my dad or guardian at the same time like a buddy-guardian(you get the idea) you know? It started just because we have a common interest. Kinky stuffs we want to try and do. Example of his sweetness, he did suggest fisting(he's the top) coz he really would like to fist. And that is not my thing, but i didn't say it, i just said that sounds cool, we can try that. A few days later we talked again and this time i was looking forward to talking about fisting because i want him to feel comfortable with me and being a sub bottom, i was trying to please my top. but he said its ok, we dont have to do it if you're not comfortable with it. He kindda understood my tone of voice in our last chat. Awww...that's the sweetest thing u know. we decided to meet last week but he got into an accident on the way here. so, he had to go back fix his car and all(long story)(the weather is crazy in alabama). But the second time, he had an unexpected client at his work meeting(we decided to meet after he finished his meeting at such and such time) and they(the client) stayed longer than he expected and we didn't meet. That's when he tried to make it up by offering to pick me up and bring over his house to spend the night next week. He never asked for my address btw. I gave him coz we expected to meet the second time(after his meeting).

 

[Rex]

Come out, come out, where ever you are!

What a closet case!

Drive the fucking hour.

Get your fucking rocks off.

It will be meaningless.

Can someone ban this cunt?

Instead of trying to educate people about how to hook up, why don't you go out and get fucked yourself? Sounds like you really need it.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

Is 1 hour drive too far? That's where he's from. But again, that's not really the main issue here. Its just that you brought it up. might as well.

I don't have a car. There's a city that's 15 mins by train to the north and one that's 15 mins by train to the south. I never go any further because it will usually take me 45 minutes to get where I'm going.

 

[Newbie_69]

Can someone ban this cunt?

Instead of trying to educate people about how to hook up, why don't you go out and get fucked yourself? Sounds like you really need it.

I just had to bite my tongue(or fingers). you see, with attention whores, there's only one cure. Cut her resources=attention.

hey epic fail, about what you said(about the guy), no pun intended rite?

 

[Newbie_69]

cool. since you live in las vegas, i suppose your opinion on this matter is pretty accurate. thanks

and sultan, are u a guy or girl?

 

[Rex]

I'm a guy.


Ughhh... I knew this Velvet Sky av would cause problems.