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I know a (straight) guy for 2 months and we kind of get along. I really like him so I wanted this friendship to become stronger. Yesterday morning i texted him inviting to go have a drink later. He never replied and i felt a bit hurt and disrespected. He could have just said 'no' and would be fine with me.

how should i react tomorrow when i bump into him? should i adress the issue? in what way? should i pretend nothing happened and act normal? I dont want to look like a fool with no self esteem. should i give him the cold shoulder and get along with my life? I reall don't know why he ignored me and what should i do.

Thanks in advance, and sorry if i'm not so good in english :thumbsup:
 
don't say anything. He may have a valid reason for not replying or maybe just didn't see it. If you mention it, it would probably send him a red flag that you are clingy. Just pretend like nothing happened.
 
jensu846 said:
don't say anything. He may have a valid reason for not replying or maybe just didn't see it. If you mention it, it would probably send him a red flag that you are clingy. Just pretend like nothing happened.
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This is good advice---you may have a little crush on this guy and don't fully realize it.:D
 
Your English is pretty good. If the guy says nothing to you take it as a sign that he's happy with the friendship as it is. If you bring it up do it very casually, not like a lover who's been hurt.
 
Just act normal and jokingly ask if he got your text if the topic comes up.
 
Agree with the rest, if this is the first time he may have been busy and just forgotten to respond. If it becomes a pattern, then maybe the friendship is not going to be what you were looking for. Good luck
 
Junior42 said:
Agree with the rest, if this is the first time he may have been busy and just forgotten to respond. If it becomes a pattern, then maybe the friendship is not going to be what you were looking for. Good luck
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thanks for all the responses. today he told me 'i went out (that day) was fine' i won't make a big deal out of it or even act different but i'll never contact him again unless he does it first. I always get some perspective when posting here, so thanks again. bye
 
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