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I'm a 30 year-old virgin.

Oh gosh, I thought you were in my city for a moment I was going to say, I'd take you on a date! But In New-Brunswick Canada.
 
gwerl!!!
you need a tan and buy yourself nicer clothes. you just look dead and depressed on that first pic. be happy, you're breathing!!
 
Congratulations!!! If you are not going to supply details, at least you could give us the cliff notes version (lol).

Lex just pointed out that I missed your most recent post before making my original post. The timing of my original post was a little late, but hopefully it can be of some use to you in the future.

PS - Thanks Lex.
 
Jersey City? Isn't that across from that one island famous for all its gay bars?

btw Loki, please practice safe sex. Always assume the other guy has HIV.
 
I'm in the same situation (damn closet till 26 :-( )
I also fear that, when the matter pops up, people will be weirded out by it... ?
One the one hand, I just want to have sex (duh!)
But otoh, I don't just want to "get laid", partly because I don't feel comfortable with just getting a "one night stand", and partly because I think that that would be an even worse idea, being a virgin. It seems easier to lose your virginity to someone who atleast "knows" you (and your situation), right?
Any tips are welcome, although I know I'm the only one who can get this "sorted" ;)
Would you guys be weirded out by a 28yo virgin? For the rest, I'm quite normal and charming :)
 
and I thought 20 was bad! Altho I feel heaps similar to some of you guys as well. I would never do a one-night stand and I don't feel comfortable dating someone without knowing them first and I guess that makes me really picky

but honestly I think I can sorta empathise with how you guys feel. I can see myself boyfriendless/still a virgin until im like 50 years old tbh
 
wikke1 said:
I'm in the same situation (damn closet till 26 :-( )
I also fear that, when the matter pops up, people will be weirded out by it... ?
One the one hand, I just want to have sex (duh!)
But otoh, I don't just want to "get laid", partly because I don't feel comfortable with just getting a "one night stand", and partly because I think that that would be an even worse idea, being a virgin. It seems easier to lose your virginity to someone who atleast "knows" you (and your situation), right?
Any tips are welcome, although I know I'm the only one who can get this "sorted" ;)
Would you guys be weirded out by a 28yo virgin? For the rest, I'm quite normal and charming :)
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I'm a 24 y/o virgin and I'm still in the closet. I know I need to be the one to "sort" my life as well so that I can be myself. I don't want a one night stand either, but I do want to hurry up and have sex.
 
I don't think anyone should make a gay guy in his late 20s feel weird about being a virgin. With all those STDs out there not just HIV but also herpes, ect. The OP is smart to take his time and not sleep around. Being cautious and taking things slow is smart. There is a website called Meetup.com, the OP can check that out they have gay groups there and it isn't about sex in those groups. Gay guys go to movies together, sports leagues, book clubs ect. but in a relaxed environment without the sexual tension.


Why doesn't the OP join a gay group? Is there a gay community centre in your area? Going to groups can sometimes be easier and less stressful than going to a gay bar. I don't gay to gay bars because I just feel they are just stressful places for me. It takes a lot of courage to go to a gay bar on your own. A gay group might be easier for you because the environment is different it isn't about sexual tension or sex it is about enjoying an activity with people with a common interest.
 
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