I'm a real asshole...

[jasoncrew03]

So I have this quirk. Apparently, when I get horny, I become "a real asshole". I'm told I get very short with people and sometimes down right rude, but as soon as I have sex I'm nice as a button (well... as nice as I get).

Does anybody else act differently when they're horny or is it just me?

 

[DJ1990]

Um idk but from what I've seen in porno men get very dominant with women during sex(as do tops with bottoms) and they start smacking them around and calling them bitches.....like the other day i saw a porno where this guy was fudging this girl and then he just started smacking her and made her lick his armpits and then kiss his feet....but women and bottoms also get submissive during sex so it works out

 

[jasoncrew03]

Um idk but from what I've seen in porno men get very dominant with women during sex(as do tops with bottoms) and they start smacking them around and calling them bitches.....like the other day i saw a porno where this guy was fudging this girl and then he just started smacking her and made her lick his armpits and then kiss his feet....but women and bottoms also get submissive during sex so it works out

........Have you ever had sex with a woman?

no one wants to have sex with an asshole.

I never realized I was being mean before (I was pretty shocked when she told me), some girl told me today that I was pretty ass-holey before we had sex and then after I was nice again. But I must say, not to be rude, you're wrong because if what she told me about myself was true than tons of people don't mind having sex with an asshole.

 

[DJ1990]

Im pretty sure that only happens in pornos lol

nah i can imagine how submissive i will get when i see a huge penis on a masculine guy
i would probabbly call him God if he told me to...that's the power of the penis...but yea when i orgasam it's over until i get horny again

 

[01solara]

Um idk but from what I've seen in porno men get very dominant with women during sex(as do tops with bottoms) and they start smacking them around and calling them bitches.....like the other day i saw a porno where this guy was fudging this girl and then he just started smacking her and made her lick his armpits and then kiss his feet....but women and bottoms also get submissive during sex so it works out

UGh this sounds utterly stereotypical and sad. I guess the more masculine men are the "man" and more feminine men are the "woman" in the relationship. This is wrong on so many levels in addition to be completely inaccurate.

 

[DJ1990]

UGh this sounds utterly stereotypical and sad. I guess the more masculine men are the "man" and more feminine men are the "woman" in the relationship. This is wrong on so many levels in addition to be completely inaccurate.

Oh whatevz.
I like being submissive, but I can't imagine actually being submissive in a relationship in general....I think that's just for my sick pleasure during sex.
Dear God, I can't imagine actually cleaning for somebody or doing their laundry....unless we take turns or do it in an equal way.
Once the orgasam comes, the submissiveness goes away.
Maybe I would do their laundry if I had a chastity belt on for days, and then I would be really horny so being submissive would be pleasurable.

This reminds me I was watching another porno with this guy and this chick with huge titties.
And he was smacking her around a few times right, and she just kept smiling.
Then she got up an and started smacking him with her huge titts lol.
Now it's cute but when I was watching it I got mad, I was like what is this stupid bitch doing...I was really getting off on him smacking her around...I was trying to orgasam and I can't do that when the woman is being dominant..then she made him suck on her titties and stuff....ugh it was annoying.

 

[DJ1990]

I wouldn't have sex with anyone who acted like a arsehole. Actually as soon as someone turns into a prick I lose all interest.

Maybe the girl in question likes being treated like shit, but I don't. You'll find alot of people do though.

And for me, no I don't turn into an arsehole when I'm horny.

OMGZ this challenges my submissive side.

I just remembered an event.

One time I was on a gay video chat and this guy said hi and he showed me his cam and he was very sexy and he pulled out his dick it was huge and beuutiful I was pretty impressed.

Then I started to get naked and he kept leaving nice comments and stuff and I showed him my butt and was wawing it around a little and all of a sudden he leaves a comment saying "damn just play with it already"
and I got all defensive and wrote to this sexy huge dick guy "go play with your mom you stupid asshole" and closed the IM window.....that's interesting now that i think about it.
I suddenly lost all intrest too when he tried to tell me what to do...but I guess that's because he was being a rea asshole not just a fake asshole for sexual pleasure.

 

[The_Reaper]

Because every asshole needs a song...

 

[bulge]

It's always nice when guys show they are in need. It makes them extremely appealing. I prefer a guy being a real ass hole at it than all the romantic crap, but I worship male sexual arousal in any form. So, vanilla as well.

 

[rareboy]

If you behaved like an asshole around me just because your testosterone is raging, you'd get nothing.

 

[Shepherd 2]

I am loving always. I am always horny as well. So I have no real answer for this for I do not understand not horny.

Shep+

 

[erobert]

I'm with rareboy.

Not into douchebags. If you start that up with me and I'll give the "what the *?@ is your problem?" look. Continue and I'm leaving. A lot of guys would be the same way. Unless they're into roleplaying or Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde.

Romantic, sweet, affectionate, flirty laughter is usually a better way to go than being rude and having a short temper. This is something I would work on changing if I were you as it doesn't bode well for anything more serious than just fooling around.

 

[jasoncrew03]

So, I did some investigating. I went to go find some of the people I slept with in the last few weeks to ask them if I was an asshole. I got the same answer from all of them. They said I do get assholey but it's not like I'm gonna walk up to people and punch them in the face and I'm not rude to the person I'm trying to get with. I just get short with the other people around me. Well, I guess you learn something new everyday.