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I'm Afraid I'm Only Attracted To Straight Guys

dude, OTHF, you should just forget about it. i'm in the same boat as you--definitely like the dick, want a relationship, but am not turned-on by fruity guys. i'm currently dating a beefy, masculine stud (who loves to bottom for me) and the moment i gave-up worrying about it was the moment i found him. just be yourself and keep your eyes open and i'm sure you'll find a good, masculine man.
 
You're not in love, you're in lust.

Think of what you're really saying here. You say you want a macho guy to protect, care for you - etc. But it's not only what your partner can do for you, it's what you can do for your partner. Many straight guys also want their partners to care for them in some way.

You have these pornographic fantasies in your mind that have nothing to do with reality. Of course it's easy for you to pine for straight guys from a safe distance. You don't have to really work or strive for anything! You get to stay in a 'what if' masturbatory fantasy world. But it's starting to lose its cool isn't it?

You don't sound like you really got out or even met men much either. Many guys in gay bars/places are down to earth and masculine. A lot of what you're thinking is all in your head.

You don't have to keep entertaining these thoughts that gay = feminine, weak and straight = masculine, strong.
 
A relationship has little to do with the actual dick part. A relationship is about two people sharing their lives together, the ups and downs, the trials and tribulations.

And you know this. If you want a sex puppy, well first- that will get old fast, and you know it. You want it now, because you're a bit sheltered and sexually repressed. But you crave intimacy as much as you do raw lust.

Being gay made you different. But it's your fault now that you're staying that way. With support of some confident gay guys that have already been there, you can climb your way out of hell just like we all had to do.

If your community, your society valued your sense of well-being as much as they did the straight guy (where most things are built and created for him), you'd probably seem confident and able too. What about all the straight girls that get unrequited crushes on you and think you're the shit? Do you think of them? Think about it!
 
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