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I'm an asshole.

Yup.

But if you've learned a lesson from all of this, then there's hope for redemption.
 
Well, if your sister's guy friend made out with you, maybe he shouldn't be with your sister anyway.

And making out is pretty small potatoes, really. I wouldn't consider that cheating, it's more like another, non-verbal form of communication. So what? You did that with this guy, doesn't hurt your BF in the least. And maybe gets the guy to realize he might not be into girls after all....
 
I'm not exactly sure I agree with your definition of non-verbal communication^^, but I know I'm in the minority on that one.

to the OP, tell your sister! This happened to me (though I didn't have a bf) My sister had two boys friends in high school that ended up gay and after me, not my sister. if you care about her, she need to know the kind of guy friend she has.
 
Regarding your BF, what kind of relationship do you have? If you're supposed to be monogamous, then you crossed the line. If you're allowed to make out with other guys you're fine.

Regarding your sister. Yeah, maybe she'll thank you, but I'd bet that's not what she's gonna say. If you tell her without thinking this through, you're gonna precipitate a crisis and deal with it badly, either way, she's not gonna be happy with you. Either she won't believe you, which makes it look like you're trying to break them up, or she will, which makes it look like you're a tool who poached her guy. I very much doubt she's gonna respond with gratitude for your intervention.

You put yourself into their relationship, which was stupid. Setting aside what that says about your respect for your sister, and your self control, you're gonna have to ride the fallout, if you tell her, and if you don't.
 
Did he say it was his sister boyfriend? I read "guy friend" as in, a friend of his sister who is male, not a lover. Did I missunderstood?

And making out is pretty small potatoes, really. I wouldn't consider that cheating, it's more like another, non-verbal form of communication. So what? You did that with this guy, doesn't hurt your BF in the least. And maybe gets the guy to realize he might not be into girls after all....

You say that because you're in an open relationship, so a kiss doesn't mean anything to you but it is not the case for all of us, or every relationship, it depends and having in mind that the OP was concerned enough to write here, I guess it is a big deal for him.

In my case, if my bf made out with someone else...I don't know what I would do but i'd be really pissed off.
 
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