I used to think that there was someone out there for everyone. It was just a matter of when you met them...but that is just false...romance is dead..we are just waiting on the autopsy results to see what killed it.
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Ummm.......so romance not being so kind to you lately I take it?
What's going on?
What's going on?
It's not anything specific...I've just learned a lot in the last few months..and it all seems to be true..the path to happiness is to be built, shallow, and white...I can and will work on 2 of the 3...can't do anything about the third....
Fat Tom
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You live in Va Beach, eh? Where do you hang out? I'm not trying to meet you or anything, I'm just curious.
racer2438
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probly cus you are to disparate to get into a relationship. And you may have low self esteem.
Finding someone takes time and work. If you rush into it your bound to make alot of mistakes and get and hurt people.
Find out what you want , look at how you come across to others and see thru there eyes as they would look at you and see what they see. are you something that they would want.
when I found my b/f I was not looking and it just happened. It just hit me and we fell madly in love.
We have now been togther for 24 years!!!
And I would not trade it for the world. We have so much in common and cant stand to be away from each other very long.
So be patient and look for someone that has the qualites that you need.
dont be in ar rush .. Hang in there it will happen.
Finding someone takes time and work. If you rush into it your bound to make alot of mistakes and get and hurt people.
Find out what you want , look at how you come across to others and see thru there eyes as they would look at you and see what they see. are you something that they would want.
when I found my b/f I was not looking and it just happened. It just hit me and we fell madly in love.
We have now been togther for 24 years!!!
And I would not trade it for the world. We have so much in common and cant stand to be away from each other very long.
So be patient and look for someone that has the qualites that you need.
dont be in ar rush .. Hang in there it will happen.
Fat Tom
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Yep... I really despise when people come on to me strong.
well this post wasn't so much about chasing down a partner..more what I have observed over time...and guys that come on strong kinda scare me..I'm actually really shy..unless we're talking about a topic that gets me going...
G-Lexington
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>>>I used to think that there was someone out there for everyone. It was just a matter of when you met them...
Meaning what? You walk into a room, lock eyes on that one guy, float out with him on a cloud of happiness, and begin your "happily ever after" from that point on? Then yes, you're way off base. A select few people meet their mates this way, but that's the exception, not the rule.
>>>the path to happiness is to be built, shallow, and white...
The last two, no. The first one, definitely. You find someone you mesh with, you get to know them better, you both decide to start building a life together, and you start building. Brick by brick, step by step, stone by stone. It's a process, and it never ends. But it's damned worthwhile, if you ask me.
Lex
Meaning what? You walk into a room, lock eyes on that one guy, float out with him on a cloud of happiness, and begin your "happily ever after" from that point on? Then yes, you're way off base. A select few people meet their mates this way, but that's the exception, not the rule.
>>>the path to happiness is to be built, shallow, and white...
The last two, no. The first one, definitely. You find someone you mesh with, you get to know them better, you both decide to start building a life together, and you start building. Brick by brick, step by step, stone by stone. It's a process, and it never ends. But it's damned worthwhile, if you ask me.
Lex
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So what if there's not someone out there for everyone. If you're assuming you're one of those people who don't have anybody waiting out there in the ether for you, then make your life around yourself. Make yourself into the person you want to be. Whether you want to be a stand offish jack ass, or a shy wall flower. Work to make yourself happy, by yourself first, then think about finding someone.
Hey Invidious,
I've come to beleive that for every bad there is a good... mate if you learned a lot in the last few months... and by the sounds of it you learned some things that hurt you... then hopefully you also learned that theres hope.
See, the fact that you hurt, that you feel the way you do shows the quality of the guy that you are. We all want to be loved held and cherished for who we are... your post shows that.
And while you feel down now, you only have to look around these boards for evidence that the other side exists... people who do care and respect. There are guys who will see you for who you are thats for sure, they will care for you and make you feel whole. If you exist then so do others who share your values and beliefs.
Romance will never die... as long as you dont let it. Dont give up on your hopes and your dreams... and dont ever give up on yourself. You are worth happiness and it will find you.
I've come to beleive that for every bad there is a good... mate if you learned a lot in the last few months... and by the sounds of it you learned some things that hurt you... then hopefully you also learned that theres hope.
See, the fact that you hurt, that you feel the way you do shows the quality of the guy that you are. We all want to be loved held and cherished for who we are... your post shows that.
And while you feel down now, you only have to look around these boards for evidence that the other side exists... people who do care and respect. There are guys who will see you for who you are thats for sure, they will care for you and make you feel whole. If you exist then so do others who share your values and beliefs.
Romance will never die... as long as you dont let it. Dont give up on your hopes and your dreams... and dont ever give up on yourself. You are worth happiness and it will find you.
I want to apologize to all that had to witness my little self-pity party last night. I'm not usually such whiny bitch. Just got a little down on things. Feeling much better today though, and to those that replied, thanks for that.
Dont sweat it mate... you wouldnt be human if you didnt have bad days... I'm glad you chose here to vent where you are surrounded by people who do actually care!
Good to see you're feeling better...just remember we're always gonna be here.
Good to see you're feeling better...just remember we're always gonna be here.
This is going to sound crazy...but I've met someone..He IMed me on Myspace to ask about something on my profile we talked for a couple of hours, then met up at the mall. Had a great time and we then spent the whole night talking and watching movies. We've already told each other that there is mutual attraction so we are going to see where this goes. Life is crazy. 
oasisdude
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This is going to sound crazy...but I've met someone..He IMed me on Myspace to ask about something on my profile we talked for a couple of hours, then met up at the mall. Had a great time and we then spent the whole night talking and watching movies. We've already told each other that there is mutual attraction so we are going to see where this goes. Life is crazy.
Life is crazy -- you never know when or where you'll meet that someone. I'm happy for you and wish the best...