I'm freaking out - Hemorrhoids

[yeeeaaahhh]

So I saw the doctor earlier this week. She prescribed me special suppositories and is having me use 3 of those per day for a week and maybe for another week if I still have my condition.

I told her that I was gay and that I am the bottom in my relationship and she said that it should be fine. I just need to let myself heal and I can go back to sexual activity.

I am still worried about this "they never go away" thing though. I just wish she would have removed them. If in a few more days I still am having trouble I may go back and just tell her to remove them. Or find a doctor who can/will.

Also, she said that they didn't look that bad, which is good to know. But still. This fucking sucks. I am getting super depressed about it, and trying to keep my chin up. But I feel like I'm failing my boyfriend since he hasn't been able to fuck me in weeks.

 

[JackFTwist]

A doctor can prescribe suppositories which cure hemorrhoids, your doctor did, they work.

If there is a hard core hemorrhoid, it can be removed. I had that done once in that case.

Your are freaking out, understandable, but you have no real reason to freak. In actuality, using lots of lube in anal sex/anal play actually helps too.

 

[anonymouschris31]

so, Mr Yeeeeaaaahhhh, is there any update on this...i first experienced thrombosed hemorrhoids about two years ago after my wife pulled my dildo out too fast....last night i was on top (her with a strap-on), and she told me it was bleeding...i used a mirror and looked, and the hemorrhoids were worse than ever...i'm kind of going through the same emotions you were three weeks ago...i hate how it looks b/c it's worse than ever, but i'm also angered that it's there in the first place....

 

[palemale]

I had hemorrhoids a couple of years ago. The proctologist told me suppositories do not work (my internist had prescribed some, and they didn't work). I went to the proctologist two weeks after I got the hemorrhoids. He said he could do surgery, and they would be fine in a couple of days, or I could let them heal on their own, and it might be a couple of weeks. I opted for the surgery. It was quick, he did it right in the office. I bled a lot for a couple of days, but that was it. I've bottomed a few times since, including for a guy with 9" and one 9.5". I just eat right, use baby wipes after shitting, breath properly when bottoming or lifting weights. I've had no repeats.

Eating right includes more veggies, less meat, yoghurt, plenty of fluids.

 

[csm123]

I too suffured with both external and internal hemorrhoids following constipation after surgery and being on alot of antibiotics.

I tried all sorts of creams and suppositories but had no luck with any of them.Here in the uk my doctor sent me to my local hospital who looked and gave an appointment to come back in about a week and a box of powder to mix with water and drink the evening before you go back(proper laxative!!!).On my second visit i was given a small sedative then they went in with camera and found and removed all offending articals,as i watched on the screen.I was in and out of the hospital in 2 hours and the only bit of discomfort was feeling full of wind and needing to fart,which had" passed" within another hour.I dreaded going for a dump the next day but it was totaly painless for the first time in months and i have had no trouble since.Once they have gone bottoming seems even better as any swelling has also gone,so no worries there.

 

[saymyname]

So I saw the doctor earlier this week. She prescribed me special suppositories and is having me use 3 of those per day for a week and maybe for another week if I still have my condition.

I told her that I was gay and that I am the bottom in my relationship and she said that it should be fine. I just need to let myself heal and I can go back to sexual activity.

I am still worried about this "they never go away" thing though. I just wish she would have removed them. If in a few more days I still am having trouble I may go back and just tell her to remove them. Or find a doctor who can/will.

Also, she said that they didn't look that bad, which is good to know. But still. This fucking sucks. I am getting super depressed about it, and trying to keep my chin up. But I feel like I'm failing my boyfriend since he hasn't been able to fuck me in weeks.

Hey man. I just read this thread out of curiosity but I wanted to say, you shouldn't feel like you're failing your boyfriend. He loves you, right? Then that means your health is important to him. Being able to fuck you isn't the thing on his mind - having his guy get healthy and supporting you is.