I'm gay

[CowboyBob]

This is waking up back in kansas, buddy.

As giddy as we can feel when we come out, we also need to support guys going through the process by letting them know what to expect.

He has just seen what to expect. Nothing that really makes sense... just backround chatter. The truth shows it for its pettiness. When you show courage, bigots become small in your presence.

Corny6, I can tell you that we all here have gone through worse and we are ALL better people for it.

The strength of the gay man isn't in his cock or his wealth, it is in his utter lack of secrets. It brings friends you trust to love you for who you are and shows you who to let go of, before they shatter you with cruelty.

And one thing that is best about being openly gay? No matter what anybody says about you, you will continue to feel less alien and more safe. That would be because you have been honest with the person that matters the most.... yourself.

I say... WELL FUCKING DONE

Corny6, You just became a better man.

Good advice BP!

And may I add Corny6, that only you can decide when to come out, your time and your way.

 

[BostonPirate]

To the original poster, congratulations on taking that first step!



'Cause I'm so sweet!

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[Geoffboyardee]

I'm guessing you're talking about your post.

Corny6's post and admission took courage.

Yours? Not so much.

Dude, what the hell? Did I ever say the OP's THREAD didn't take courage. Did I ever say my post was the "greatest act of bravery"? My god. Find someone else to assume things on.

(pissed-fucking-off-face)

 

[Geoffboyardee]

Since there is some dumb ass confusion, let me re-say this.

Corny6, even though you are telling this to a whole bunch of anonymous men, this is very courageous of you. Admitting it, even saying or typing it is extremely hard (at least for me it was).

You have a small or big road ahead of you but you can make the choice of how long you want it to be. As long as you stay firm to who you are and don't let anyone else say different, you will find life much, much better.

But anyway, if you're at least reading this, think of this. Before we learn to swim, we have to put all our faith into ourselves, hold our breath, and jump in. If you trust yourself and keep steady, you will keep afloat. (now apply that to your situation! lol)

Lot's of care,

Geoff.

 

[frankfrank]

I AGREE!! WELCOME!!! SOMEONE HAS COOKIES AROUND HERE SOMEWHERE, HAVE A FEW!

This site put some cookies on my computer. Do you want some of those? I think they're oatmeal raisin.

Very good, corny6! You're fortunate to be alive during a time that you actually CAN stand on a street corner and shout [STRIKE]"I'm mad as hell, and I'...[/STRIKE] (oops, wrong movie) "I'M GAY!" and find acceptance. Of course this is only a virtual street corner, but when us old codgers were coming to terms with it, there was nowhere "in public" that one could easily come out.