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I'm getting fucked by this hot dude. He has 3 kids. Should I feel like a whore???

How many 31 year olds work for the local hockey team in Wichita?

Please think before you post details like that. Would YOU like it if HE posted such a description that would out you on a public board, detailing all the specific sex acts you've done.

This man has kids too. You've publicly detailed the sexploits of their father.

Think before writing.
 
Are you a whore? Only if he's paying you, and only if you're doing it because you want the money.

Perhaps you should meet the kids once? Briefly? See if they're somebody you wouldn't mind having in your life?

Lex
 
xyboyms said:
I just don't want the extra baggage (that sounds horrible but whatev).

Thoughts?????? :help:
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Scenario: Guy 1 is not married, has 3 kids, but wants a sex life. He knows if he tells a potential mate that it might be a deal breaker. Guy 2 is short, knows his dick may not be as long as Guy 1 might like it, but wants a sex life. He knows that this can be a deal breaker. The playing field is level.

Do these people hide it until deal time ? You bet your ass they do.

Guy 1 is still contacting Guy 2 after hot-hot-hot romance. Is Guy 2 fortunate ? Yes, you bet your ass he is.

Sorry that sounds harsh.

Now for the unharsh. I can TOTALLY relate to your concern about having sex while kids are around, sleeping or not. We used to tell the kids that "mom and dad are tired and need to take a nap for awhile" but now that they are older, they are not dummies, and it just seems weird to have sex when they are in the same house.

BTW, Guy 2 is not a whore.

Tell Guy 1 that you are not comfortable at all with having sex when his kids are home, sleeping or not. That most couples, gay or straight, aren't that comfortable with it either when they have kids in the house. Not only that, but he might lose custody of the kids if his ex finds out and does he want that.

So that leaves the week and weekend off for any hookups.

BTW, I am only two states away and this situation might work out for me...(*8*)

PS. I have a beef with single or gay people referring to kids as "baggage" , "ankle biters" or a "problem." How arrogant. What if your parents categorized you like that while you grew up.
 
my partner has 3 boys from a previous marriage. they are great.

i saw if he is worth it, than him having kids is just a plus.
 
I've 'dated' men who had children, and it's never been a problem. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. If you're concerned that the children are going to catch you fucking or whatever, then be sure to lock the door or arrange to hook up before the kids get home. He doesn't seem to have a problem with fucking you while the kids are home. If the sex is as amazing as you say, then I'd be at his door at 9:01 ready to be fucked and fucked some more.
 
It's really not a big deal. People have sex while their kids are in the house all the time. As long as you wait until they're asleep and are mindful of the noise you make, I wouldn't worry about it.
 
Are straight couples concerned when they have sex with kids in the house? Maybe Dad's not out but if he says that it's okay to screw with the kids in the house after they've gone to bed then apparently he's prepared to deal with any consequences that may arise. I would definitely do it.

Just be careful when it comes to a relationship. Make sure you're ready to deal with children and the "baby mama drama" if it comes to that.

Good luck!
 
Yoelrey said:
I think YOU should think before posting. Has anyone been outed? Do we know who this guy is? Can we find out? Can his children find out? Please.......:grrr:
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Yes is the answer to all of your questions.
 
Nothing wrong with a fella having a few young'uns running about...So long as they aren't actually running about.

Personally, if you like him and he has kids...It's not like he can make the choice between you or them, cause we all know how that would turn out.

And besides, where is this going with your club man? Are you heading towards just getting together for sex every once and awhile, or are you actually going to start dating? If it's just for sex, don't let the kid thing bother you.

If you're going to start dating, and are uncomfortable with him having kids, don't be afraid to let him know that. It may be a deal breaker, but it's not something you can avoid.
 
Oh my gosh thank you ALL for your comments & advice ( and I do mean EVERYONE).

I really appreciate everyone giving their 2 cents on the matter.

Okay, I've decided to tell him what I want exactly from this thing we have. No offense I don't mean to disrespect anyone but I'm barely 22 I really can't date someone over 30 as a serious bf for me. And I'm sure he feels the same about me.

I want the sex and that's it. I'm sure that's what he's in it for too. And I'm sure the more I go over the less I'll feel weird about the kiddies........
 
I'm having trouble seeing the problem.

you like him.. he likes you.. he's not married but has kids and takes part in their care.

sounds like a pretty good guy to me.
 
Oh good, I'm so glad to finally hear from somebody who's only looking for sex. Most of the guys on JUB won't put out until they get the engagement ring, practically.
 
Tell him you love kids and would like to meet his kids. Go to the zoo with them. But also explain that even if you were str8, you wouldn't want to have sex in the house when the kids are there. Then tell him you will stay the entire week and more than make up the week of celebacy to him the weeks when the kids are at mom's house. The go for it.
 
LOL at whoever brought up this old thread back from the grave!!!

Anyway, he & I have been seeing each other for a while now and everything is going incredibly well and the sex is AMAZING!

Thanks for the comments & opinions (and I mean everyone :)) but he & I are as solid as a rock! ..|
 
Ehh...

I kind of feel like a 'judgmental asshole' for my remarks.....

I dunno, life takes us down some strange paths, and when love, (or at least the 'possibility' of love) presents itself, we tend to be drawn to it.... right or wrong...)

Let's face it.....we can't all look like Elvin or Soilwork.


Yeah, it's a *bitch* being gay....But, I have this sneaking suspicion that it's all going to work out.... ;)
 
^^^You're not an asshole. (*8*)

I love reading your posts and trust me I appreciate every comment that people post in threads started by me.

But, yeah, trust me guys, he & I are doing incredibly great! ..|
 
As long as the sex is good xy.... ;)

But good for you! I've noticed Entertainment hasn't been the same since you've been getting laid.... :p
 
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