I'm I weird

[Curiouswrestler]

Is it weird that when I'm attracted to guy he is mainly white or Latino and I'm a blk and I don't find most blk guys attractive am I weird and does anybody else feel this way but most white or Latino guys don't like blk guys

 

[hylas]

no, its not uncommon for people to have strong preferences in ethnicities.

i think it has to do with racist beauty standards and racist representations in the media, but thats just my opinion.

in my own experience, its also hard to change, even if you try to real hard.

this is kind of a sensitive subject and may piss people off, online and in real life, so you wanna tread lightly if youre gonna bring it up.

 

[tomhrdhat]

I'm white and I check out black guys more often than I check out other white guys

 

[itsmeagain]

I'm white and certain types of sets within races turn me on. This is not just with blacks, but Asians, Mexicans, Latinos, Koreans, etc. I also find mixed races really hot too....never hooked up though, so this is fantasy...

 

[Str8Top14701]

I dated a black chick that found white skin a huge turn on for her.

It's not really any different than liking a certain build, or hair or eye color, it's whatever turns you one.

 

[Curiouswrestler]

It's ok... I'm white and i find black guys hotter.

I think white guys are freaking hot the hottest but they usually don't find black guys hot

 

[MatttheBruinsfan]

Everybody has their own taste, and there's nothing wrong with that as long as you treat people that you're not attracted to in a respectful manner.

 

[bankside]

Is it weird that when I'm attracted to guy he is mainly white or Latino and I'm a blk and I don't find most blk guys attractive am I weird and does anybody else feel this way but most white or Latino guys don't like blk guys ����

It it weird that I like guys with really built shoulders and chests and I notice them before I notice other handsome guys who are skinnier?

Is it weird that my guy doesn't really notice upper bodies on men, but he really likes my thighs and my calves and that's what defines a hot build in his mind?

It is okay to like things about people that are different than yourself. It is not okay to use it to pre-judge people or screen them out. Sometimes people look good on the second glance, even if they aren't your usual "type." And everybody wants to be treated as an individual.

Would you be happier dating a latino guy who thought you were black and hot, or dating a latino guy who thought you were hot because you're black? The first guy likes everything about you including your skin. The second guy is dating a colour, that you happen to be. See the difference?

 

[str8guy]

I dated a black chick that found white skin a huge turn on for her.

It's not really any different than liking a certain build, or hair or eye color, it's whatever turns you one.

i agree... very well said

 

[hylas]

i dont agree with those who equate a preference in skin colour with preferences in build/age/hair colour/whatever other physical attribute. race is a tricky issue and those comparisons are simplicistic.

It is okay to like things about people that are different than yourself. It is not okay to use it to pre-judge people or screen them out. Sometimes people look good on the second glance, even if they aren't your usual "type." And everybody wants to be treated as an individual.

Would you be happier dating a latino guy who thought you were black and hot, or dating a latino guy who thought you were hot because you're black? The first guy likes everything about you including your skin. The second guy is dating a colour, that you happen to be. See the difference?

^ this is smart.

 

[mark1111]

Most black guys I know have awesome bodies and huge dicks. This is why I usually shy away from them. they make me feel inferior. I would not say white guys don't like black guys at all, it is more the guys personality that we like.

I think we should wrestle sometimes btw.

 

[cubbybear01]

I have a weakness for Middle Eastern and Indian guy and girls. There are many beautiful looking Middle Eastern and Indian people on my campus. I've had some really interesting conversations with some of them about what their homelands are like.

 

[ElmosToe]

Not entirely weird, I love black chicks and Latino dudes, but then I also love redheads.
More than anything though, If I am going to do anything with anyone, I have like who they are as a person, attributes merely catch my eye at first glance from afar.

You can be the hottest person in the room but if you're an idiot with no personality I'm probably not going to look at you, my dick just wouldn't respond.