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I'm not sure what to do

This situation is icky.

I'm interested in my guy's life and vice versa. That doesn't make me clingy or needy. The difference is I usually don't even have to text him because if he's gone somewhere for six hours, he's texted me or told me about it or made plans to meet up with me when he's done.

You're not being nosy to want to know what's going on in his day. It's not like you're trying to control him or prevent him from having a balanced life with his own friends. It's just that when you care about someone, it makes the day cheerful to hear their news.

If he doesn't want you to know these things because he has some peculiar need for elevated levels of privacy, then he isn't really ready for this relationship.
 
Bankside nailed it. There's nothing wrong with wondering what your lover is up to. He's being a dick.
 
bankside said:
This situation is icky.

I'm interested in my guy's life and vice versa. That doesn't make me clingy or needy. The difference is I usually don't even have to text him because if he's gone somewhere for six hours, he's texted me or told me about it or made plans to meet up with me when he's done.

You're not being nosy to want to know what's going on in his day. It's not like you're trying to control him or prevent him from having a balanced life with his own friends. It's just that when you care about someone, it makes the day cheerful to hear their news.

If he doesn't want you to know these things because he has some peculiar need for elevated levels of privacy, then he isn't really ready for this relationship.
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Well it wouldn't be a problem if he told me that he was going to busy or has stuff to do, but in my boyfriends case he just stops talking to me without letting me no anything. And I'm left to worry if something has happened to him because he can't take a minute to tell me that he is busy. And I'm going to break up with him tonight. I'm tired of him treating me like shit and taking me for granted.
 
TheSculpter101 said:
Well it wouldn't be a problem if he told me that he was going to busy or has stuff to do, but in my boyfriends case he just stops talking to me without letting me no anything. And I'm left to worry if something has happened to him because he can't take a minute to tell me that he is busy. And I'm going to break up with him tonight. I'm tired of him treating me like shit and taking me for granted.
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I'm sorry you have to break up with him, but it sounds like it's for the best. We're here if you need us. (*8*)
 
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