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I'm not the least bit gay, I just enjoy sucking cock

justaguy said:
Although it's interesting that they feel they have to point out they are hetero and not gay, is it not? It's almost like they're saying, 'I want to point out that even though I like sucking dick, I'm not like the rest of you homos.' :)
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Yeah you are probably right - I guess it just depends on how open they are about it. I have friends that are completely open about the fact they have been sucked off/sucked off guys to anyone that would ever ask, but they just have no interest in it any more - they just wanted it at the time.

If it's a regular thing and they are just hiding from the world about it, then yeah that is shit. But I do think there is a whole heap of people out there that just sort of do these things, enjoy it, but just get back on with what they were doing in the past. As long as people are open about their desires, I don't mind what they call themselves.
 
JohnnyAnger said:
As long as people are open about their desires, I don't mind what they call themselves.
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That's because you're younger than us and haven't spent decades hearing the same sort of sorry homosexuals deny they were gay yet. It gets really old after the first few years.
 
Willie Boy said:
Most homophobes are just gays who can't accept their own sexuality so they attack others with similar desires in an attempt to prove to themselves they are "good".

On the other hand, there are many, many idiots in the world.... And the gay community has its share. For someone to go onto (what I assume is) a gay site to read gay stories and enjoy them..... What was he doing there in the first place if he isn't gay?

*In Columbo voice* Just one more thing...... How can a guy who "likes sucking cock" claim not to be gay? It would be the equivalent of a person saying he isn't a murderer, he just likes killing people.
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There are a few straight guys (into women) that have sucked my cock before. :lol:
 
Willie Boy said:
Except in rare occasions. Such as being forcibly raped by someone. One doesn't suddenly become bi just because he was raped.
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That's not really what I meant that's a bit different.
 
eastofeden said:
So...I hate sucking dick...am I straight?
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That depends, do you like being fucked? Do you like having sex with men? Do you enjoy sex with both men and women? There are many ways to have sex. And yes, oral sex is one of them. The point is if someone enjoys sexual intercourse with members of the same sex he/she is not straight, no matter how much he/she wants to hide in the closet. Any more than calling a blue shirt orange will make it so, simply because you want it to be.
 
Willie Boy said:
That depends, do you like being fucked? Do you like having sex with men? Do you enjoy sex with both men and women? There are many ways to have sex. And yes, oral sex is one of them. The point is if someone enjoys sexual intercourse with members of the same sex he/she is not straight, no matter how much he/she wants to hide in the closet. Any more than calling a blue shirt orange will make it so, simply because you want it to be.
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I think you ask all the wrong questions.
The right question is, are you attracted to men?

I'm sure he is attracted to men. His post was a statement and not a question.
 
A lot of straight guys find penises intriguing. Who do you think mainly goes for MTF transgender porn, and transgender escorts? Straight guys who like dick can get the best of both worlds for them... women with penises!
 
Imo,

Think it has to do with abhorring the many negative stigmas and stereotypes associated with the term "gay".
Like it or not, gay is still seen or thought of as feminine, sissy, someone who is submissive and likes getting fucked in the ass.
Many men have some level of insecurity when it comes the fragile male ego. Anything associated with possibly emasculating an insecure man and exposing that insecurity and harming the ego is cause for alarm. Protecting their masculinity at all costs becomes paramount, even at the expense of logic and common sense. So they often like to stick to their straight label, even if they have some level of interest in cock, because society loves to infer straight as being synonymous with masculine just as gay is synonymous with feminine.

So when the ridiculous notion pops up that a "straight" guy likes sucking cock but he's not gay, what he is saying is, "i'm fascinated by cocks and it's fun to play with them, in my hands, in my mouth, but I'm still masculine, still a man and not some submissive, feminine sissy who likes to take it up the ass."


All that said, if the guy, truly, genuinely still loves women and still really likes pussy, he's not gay. Conversely, the notion that just because he likes cock makes him automatically gay but just in denial is as equally absurd as saying you are straight as your mouth is full of cock and dripping with cum.

Contrary to ridiculous nonsense by ignorant, arrogant asshats, there are more orientations than just either straight or gay.



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Well, there are some straight men who do engage in sexual acts with other men. However, their behaviour is always out of the ordinary and tends to reflect either abnormal emotional needs, psychological trauma or, simply, the desire to survive. Male prostitutes, Narcissists, people who are aroused by doing something they perceive to be "transgressive" or "dirty" and deeply damaged victims of sexual abuse are among the straight men who do have sex with other men but, as I have said before, they are neither the norm nor what we would consider people engaging in ordinary (or even healthy) interactions.

Yet and still, "straight" men who deliberately go to gay erotic fiction sites and enjoy sex with other men, might define themselves as they wish, but technically are not what they claim to be. The fact that the adjective "straight" makes them feel safer and less conflicted about what they are doing, is only a reflection of both their internalized homophobia, and the homophobia of their immediate social context. By definition, a person who deliberately seeks sex with individuals of their same gender out of genuine attraction and the desire to derive physical pleasure/healthy emotional expression (not necessarily romantic) of said encounters, is bisexual. The real problem is that many people mistakenly assume that bisexuality is a) latent or deeply repressed homosexuality or b) an equal attraction, at all times, for both genders at all levels (both romantic and sexual).

This is not so. We all know that you can be bisexual in a million ways, and it is both unhealthy and unfair to deny this bisexuality, because there is nothing wrong with it and, above all, it isn't shameful because it entails some form of same sex attraction. By telling people that they can 'call themselves whatever they want', we are contributing to allow many to perpetuate the notion that same sex attraction is something abnormal that must be denied via semantic games.

Homosexuality is not bisexuality, but their are united, up to a certain extent, by specific attraction patterns. If we inform people and remind society that bisexuality is not a transitory state from full heterosexuality to full homosexuality, we will all be able to acknowledge that same sex desire is there, and there is nothing wrong with it. it is just part of human nature for some of us.

So yes, while pressurizing some people into labelling themselves in one particular way might be counterproductive, we should remind them and ourselves that words do have the power to change public perception as we clarify their meaning, in the same way that those same words could be used in the past as moral weapons against certain minorities.
 
Telstra said:
I think you ask all the wrong questions.
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No, I was asking the right questions.


His post was a statement and not a question.
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Read it again. He specifically asked, "...am I straight?"

It would be easier to have a conversation with you if you would take the time to understand what is posted instead of making up what you want it to mean.
 
A lot of men's only exposure to homosexuality is what they see in the media. Flamboyant, hyper feminine, etc. They think that's what being gay is, and I guess they have gay desires but don't want to be that representation of a gay men and can't fathom ever being so.

I've met quite a few guys who are like that.. and hooked up with them.. :p , but yeah, that's reality.
 
Maybe the guy just like the challenge of getting a cock in his mouth and pleasuring it. He may not have any sexual attraction to the guy, or guys in general, and so doesn't think himself homosexual. Its all about his fixation with an item, which happens to be a penis. Ergo, it's a fetish.
 
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