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i was just gonna blog the updates... but since they are apparently still down i will just update here...

we went to check on 2 bedroom apartments for me and my sister... we found a nice one not to far from the current place for a bit less then $500 a month after utilities, internet, and rented laundry...
i found a couple places to apply at... fry's and a decent deli... both would pay enough so that would work... my sister can probably get me an in at apple though i am not worried about it... i will work at where i get a job for a bit to make ends meet and i will continue to look at other places for something better...
the biggest unfortunate thing is we can't move into the apartment until sept 8th... so... i get to drive around with the bulk of my possessions in my car until then... wahoo... thats about all that has happened so far... austin has tons of cute guys so i am lacking nothing... though my old town was semi beachish so lots of shirtless guys... out here not so many... oh wells... i need to get shit together before i worry about that... thats about it really... had lots of fun just playin around a bit today cause its the first sunday in a while i was not forced to go to church... so yeah thats it thanks for the support guys... however internety it is it has helped to hear a few people say "good for you" and such...

thank you all so much again and good night :) :kiss:
 
Wow.. you're... all... taking charge and not whining and going "WHHHHHHYYYYYYY"

kinda hot.
 
Soilwork said:
Wow.. you're... all... taking charge and not whining and going "WHHHHHHYYYYYYY"

kinda hot.
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you like most would be surprised at how take chargey i am... i may be a bit efemanite, heck people have called me queen... i am no pussy... i don't really whine much... i don't see a point to it... sure i could use a hug and someone to hold me a bit... but i don't have one so all i can do is take charge and lay claim to the changes that are about to happen... it'll be hard but i am expecting that...
frankly the fact that you called it kinda hot encourages me so i know i am just gonna work harder towards my goals... so thank you soilwork :kiss: tomarrow i shall put a smile on and get myself a job... ty again for you guys' support (*8*) :kiss:
 
It really is an inspiring story... even if not an ideal reaction by the parents, because let's face it... since when is life ideal? Thanks for the updates. I've never been to Austin but everybody has great things to say about it so it must be decent. Like you said, it will just take some time.
 
first thing... they need to get the blogs up so i can just post there :p

now... i have an interview tomarrow for a place thats kinda like an upscale K-mart... which i would rather say then a down scale Target....
thursday i have an appointment with a "couselor" i think my first question is "are you a liscenced psychologist?" and if he says no then i will probably turn around and say "well bye then"
then again i might stay and say "so... if gays go to hell... what are you going to do about a guy who isn't afraid of hell?" cause frankly how do you hold a religion in order if theres people who are like "umm hell? psh"
anyways... me and my sister are making my resume tomarrow evening and i will be sending them to about oh... 10 different openings of jobs i want (reception with data entry) so yeah sounds good... theres also a place in apple a floor down from where my sister works that i will also apply for (hazzah for jobs in the same building!) anywho thats about it... theres a lot of reception positions opening that require no experience so i will be quite happy about that... especially since most start at $8 which is pretty good for tex since minimum is $5.15 here... plus it will be plenty to make rent which is gonna be a little less then $500 a month which includes utilities and everything... its basically i can take like $480 or so out of my budget putting it directly towards my apartment... anyways... g'night :p thanks again for your support today certainly has shown that it does help me :kiss:

oh kinda funny story... i got lost coming home today... twice.... from the same place... i went to this place to hang out for a bit after applying multiple places... and took me 10 minutes to get there... 45 to get home... i went again at 10:30 took 5 minutes (cause we were at my sisters boyfriends house) then took me 45 minutes to get home... i fail... tremendously... :p anyways... g'night thanks again :kiss:
 
lol about getting lost. That too will get better. Wandering aimlessly (or aimfully) is a great way to learn a new city imo. Good luck with everything
 
yeah.... i did the same thing today... i went to my job interview (i now have a part time job starting monday) and on my way home i was drivin up and... i got lost again on the same road... however... it isn't goin to happen again since i need to talk parmer not palmer... thank you texas accent :p
 
Thanks for keeping us updated! It sounds like you are really taking charge of the situation.

FYI, most counselors aren't Psychologists. The are Licensed, but tend to be Social workers, Marriage and Family Counselors, and others that vary state by state. If you get a Psychologist - great. But they are in shorter supply. So most important - make sure they are licensed and not just some minister.

And then go get 'em! :=D:
 
yeah thats what my sister recomended... so instead of just sayin... do you have an MD of a kind? i will be askng about their educational backround as well as any certification they might have... i discovered today that his office is behind a church so yeah... that should be interesting... tomarrow i will also be finishing up my resume and will be sending it to a few companies where i can do what i want to do (reception is my actual realistic dream job... don't ask why) but yeah hope to get in somewhere pleasant enough
 
douseiai

I have been following this thread and just wanted to say that I am glad that everything is starting to work itself out. You are a very strong guy. please let us know how things continue to go.

best of luck on your job search. if your luck is like mine, you will get three or more offers at the same time.
 
Douseiai, I to just wanted to say congratulations and good luck!! You seem to bhe handling it very well I wish you all the luck in the world!!!!!!
 
well i just got home from getting lunch and goin to the counselour... it was nicer then i thought... he is not liscensed because he is an ordaned minister... he actually just came out and told me that he is not going to use the bible cause its obviously not what i need... i just said "cool"... he told me his educational backround and that he is trained in gestalt therapy... and at the closing of our ... "session" he asked if i would be interested in doing it... he explained what it was, in short its just something to help you find ones self and to eleviate certain feelings and help take responsibility of the past... i figured sure... so we will be doing that once i get my schedule...

last night i almost slapped my sister cause we were gonna make my resume and submit it.... instead her boyfriend came over and they played guitar hero.... she said she would do it this after noon so i said ok... anywho... thats about it so far...
 
theres no reason... the only reason he is not liscensed is because he can't in the state of texas because he is an ordaned minister... the only reason that i probably will continue to see this guy is because it will make my parents comfortable... oh he is reqiured to follow the confidentiality clause so that works for me... i think having him for a bit will make my parents more comfortable cause they are part of the reason that i am doing it... well the majority... so yeah... it will work for now and i dont have to continue seeing him...
 
but I'm still confused as to why you need counselling.

I mean.. it sounds to me like you have your shit together.

And if you're doing it to appease your parents.. that's a VERY dangerous precident to set.
 
i don't think i need couseling.... it is a move that i did to get my parents to well quite frankly "back the fuck off" i have been thinkin about it since i got home and am still deciding on whether or not to continue it... if anything i may not even be able to continue to do it due to work... they do not have my phone number so its doubtful they can contact me.... i told them i would call them... my sister is supportive but she also things a bit of therapy could be helpful to me... though i dunno... ever since i came out i have felt a lot better... no more slight depressive bouts or anything... so while it may have been useful before i don't know about now... i will of course still think about it and consider the options... but for right now i am thinking a strong maybe... it will take time to think and stuff... so yeah... just gonna take some thought i am not in much of a hurry...
 
btw he is qualified... its just you dont need the liscence in texas if your an ordaned minister so he has just never gotten it... he is however required to comply with the confidentiality clause... he is on the faculty for the gestalt institute for austin so yes he does have a psychological side i think thats what his phd is.... its a long conversation for me to just type out the entirty of... i may consider going once and i may never even go back so i dunno... my parents think he will turn me straight... i think he just wants me to kinda feel better... he did say that he doesnt know if i would get any help from it... so *shrug* i still have to think about it so i dunno... my sister is familiar with gestalt theorpy and has assured me its mostly a sideish thing... its not a dramatic affector of life it can just help you to know you better... so i dunno i will do a bit of research when i have time tonight and all so *shrug* meh... as i said i am still thinking about it
 
Riverrick said:
I don't understand. He "came out". Do you mean he is gay?
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came out is a term in english which means: to bluntly and openly say
he is not gay he just came right out and said it... in a blunt and open manner...
though i should have said "came right out"
 
he is with the congregation... his office is in a church... he does have "clients"(i guess) that are nonchristians... he assured me that he does not bring up the bible unless asked... i do not want someone to be beating me over the head with a bible the way me parents were so believe me that is what i am avoiding... frankly i was surprised that he wasn't going to smack me with one...

bare in mind still that he does do stuff outside of the church as part of his work with the gestalt institute... so yeah *shrug*
 
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