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sorry for the bumpage but we just moved into our 2 bedroom apartment... we get internet on the 20th so i have sort of been without it until now... its hard to check jub in public places... luckily this library has a unfiltered internet station so i am using that (its cool it has this little covering so noone can see) so anyways i will be only minorly internet capable for a little while... so updateing fast...

i responded politly to my parents avoiding what i wanted to really say... i was thinking about what soil said but i am not quite sure that i want to break all ties just yet... i really wanted to tell them "no i don't need to keep you informed, not being interigated by you is why i felt like leaving was the best thing." anywho...

i went to PFLAG it was awesome! i will probably go next month and my sister actually wants to come too... they meet at a universalist church (which i will be attending this sunday) and they actually have a GBTL adult group there... its basically 18+ (they have a youth one too) so i will try to go to that... oh crap i just realized that i am scheduled to work that day... grr.... anywho...
i may recomend to my parents to go to pflag out there sometime... it may work out well if they promise to be civil (a promise i have never seen them keep) thats about it since i am like out of time... much love... i actually have a semidate tonight so that will be fun :p anyways much love guys :kiss:
 
a semidate? You can't leave that there. J/K. Hope it goes well.

I'm sure even if your parents don't act civil that people at pflag have seen it before. I doubt everybody goes there with an open mind or feeling like having a gay son is a good thing. They probably are pretty good at dealing with those people by now.
 
My mother said that there was a couple who came to PFLAG meetings and for the first 5 or 6 she just sat there and cried.

Now she goes to the parades and smiles and laughs and has a great time.
 
Don't request that your parents act civil, in fact your parents don't need to act civil. If they make a scene, most likely there is a parent there that won't tolerate it. What that pflaq parent will say to them ultimately won't matter, for most likely they will just most likely say something that will cause your parents to confront their fears/the truth. Tough love coming from an individual that isn't you can perhaps be the best thing your parents can experience right now.
 
jockboy01 said:
a semidate? You can't leave that there. J/K. Hope it goes well.
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why cant i leave the semi date there?... :p...
it did go well... he is real quiet but i am fine with that cause i did get him to a laugh a lot... i hope thats a good thing... he may be coming this friday or saturday to my housewarming partY which it would be cool if he would... he just moved here to he is goin to UT

jockboy01 said:
I'm sure even if your parents don't act civil that people at pflag have seen it before. I doubt everybody goes there with an open mind or feeling like having a gay son is a good thing. They probably are pretty good at dealing with those people by now.
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i'm sure they have dealt with uptight upstarting parents like mine... i still ask that they be mature and civil... though they do have this track of not being in the least bit civil around stuff they don't like... noto to christian imho... my dad even said the night i came out if i have gay friends thats cool... which i flat out belly laughed to because they have both made fun of this one former friend who was slightly efeminate...
 
Sure you can leave it at semi date I guess. And imo, laughing is a good sign. Hope the housewarming party goes well.
 
jockboy01 said:
Sure you can leave it at semi date I guess. And imo, laughing is a good sign. Hope the housewarming party goes well.
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well i didn't want to call it a real date since i don't know his feelings about it.... since he is supposedly bi.... so i wasn't gonna call it a date until i find out if we will be dating more... i think the laughing was a good thing cause i messaged him last night to see if he wanted to grab dinner or hang out or somethin and he msged back sayin he couldn't but with many instances of saying that he would like to...

party is postponed till next week cause my sister is stressed about her job and i am to busy with two jobs so like nothing but my room is unpacked... other then that all is fair and fairly good... because i got my second job i will be quitting my first soon and finding something closer since it takes me like 20 minutes to get there and they only pay $6 so that will probably end in a week or so.... ttyl :kiss:
 
Well, it sounds like things are going well... both with the boy and in life. I'm very happy for you!!!
 
I agree with jockboy01, it sounds like life is starting to treat you well.

Glad to hear it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
to lazy to start new thread so posting here :p

i feel kinda dirty right now... i just called my parents and ended up talking to them for about 45 minutes... i had only called to ask how to cook something when we ended up conversing... they were at least civil enough to not bring up my going to hell and all... it did take a lot from me to not say i went out with a guy like 2 weeks ago... but they were pleasant enough and told me about some new news... nothing that i really cared much about but it was a pleasant enough conversation... i told them about my new jobs and stuff... but i still am wanting to be open about it but i know it would only put them off... which i want a decent relationship with them and they seem to want one with me... though they still don't realize that gay is part of me... so *shrug* if i call again i may tell them about the date i went on but i dunno... its just kinda aukward to bring that up and i don't know if i want to... ugg,... i dunno... i guess i am asking for advice again... should i just watch the conversations for times to insert stuff or what? arg i dunno... i feel odd grr i dunno...

rant/incomprehensible dribble done... for now...
 
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